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I've semi-befriended a feral cat that hangs out at my condo complex and would like to try to take him in, but I'm extremely confused with his erratic behavior.
I've "known" him for nearly a year now, but our relationship is very on/off. He will let me within a few feet of him, but never close enough to attempt to pet him. I feel as though he knows who I am, but does not trust humans.
He seems to show up in the afternoons and evenings, and likes sitting and napping on the lounge chairs in the pool area that are in the shade. I think he spends the night here, but is never around in the morning.
Physically, he looks like he might be a few years old (I'm guessing 3-4), but is small, likely due to malnutrition. Outside of being skinny, he looks healthy and behaves as though he is. He uses a rock garden as a litter box and his stool looks normal (same as my mother's 16-year-old housecat).
As far as I know, I'm the only person at the complex who attempts to feed him. Strangely, he prefers the pool water (which is a lightly-chlorinated salt mixture) over water that I've put out for him!
I've tried to adhere to a regular feeding schedule in order to gain his trust, but it's not unusual for him to appear regularly like clockwork for a week or two and then surprisingly vanish for several weeks at time. For example, I did not see him for about two weeks, but when I recently returned from a 10-day trip, he suddenly appeared. He followed me to the mailbox on the other side of the complex and his behavior made it seem as though he was trying to get my attention. He would not run alongside me on the sidewalk, but followed me back home by wiggling between some shrubbery only a few feet away.
He seems to like whatever I offer him, from canned and dry food to pieces of whatever I grilled that particular evening. At first he did not like when I watched him eat, so I went inside and left him alone. Now, he seems more comfortable when I linger and talk to him from a safe distance.
I used to place food for him just outside the garage door and after awhile, he seemed to poke his head around when the door was open as if to be considering to come inside. But I changed the food location to a more hidden location under some shrubbery nearer my front door because I've noticed other cats hanging around and since they looked much larger and healthier, I did not want them to be taking his food. He recognized and accepted the new location, but I wonder if I should not return to the old one since it seemed as though he was looking to come indoors?
Something tells me he's had a rough life, but is capable of warming up. He's never exhibited any kind of wild, violent or aggressive behavior in my presence. In fact, I've never heard him utter a sound, which is why I've named him Mr. Meow. Perhaps he once had a home, and that is why he chooses to hang out at this complex where he can be in the general vicinity of humans - but not necessarily close to them.
Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated - thanks!
I've "known" him for nearly a year now, but our relationship is very on/off. He will let me within a few feet of him, but never close enough to attempt to pet him. I feel as though he knows who I am, but does not trust humans.
He seems to show up in the afternoons and evenings, and likes sitting and napping on the lounge chairs in the pool area that are in the shade. I think he spends the night here, but is never around in the morning.
Physically, he looks like he might be a few years old (I'm guessing 3-4), but is small, likely due to malnutrition. Outside of being skinny, he looks healthy and behaves as though he is. He uses a rock garden as a litter box and his stool looks normal (same as my mother's 16-year-old housecat).
As far as I know, I'm the only person at the complex who attempts to feed him. Strangely, he prefers the pool water (which is a lightly-chlorinated salt mixture) over water that I've put out for him!
I've tried to adhere to a regular feeding schedule in order to gain his trust, but it's not unusual for him to appear regularly like clockwork for a week or two and then surprisingly vanish for several weeks at time. For example, I did not see him for about two weeks, but when I recently returned from a 10-day trip, he suddenly appeared. He followed me to the mailbox on the other side of the complex and his behavior made it seem as though he was trying to get my attention. He would not run alongside me on the sidewalk, but followed me back home by wiggling between some shrubbery only a few feet away.
He seems to like whatever I offer him, from canned and dry food to pieces of whatever I grilled that particular evening. At first he did not like when I watched him eat, so I went inside and left him alone. Now, he seems more comfortable when I linger and talk to him from a safe distance.
I used to place food for him just outside the garage door and after awhile, he seemed to poke his head around when the door was open as if to be considering to come inside. But I changed the food location to a more hidden location under some shrubbery nearer my front door because I've noticed other cats hanging around and since they looked much larger and healthier, I did not want them to be taking his food. He recognized and accepted the new location, but I wonder if I should not return to the old one since it seemed as though he was looking to come indoors?
Something tells me he's had a rough life, but is capable of warming up. He's never exhibited any kind of wild, violent or aggressive behavior in my presence. In fact, I've never heard him utter a sound, which is why I've named him Mr. Meow. Perhaps he once had a home, and that is why he chooses to hang out at this complex where he can be in the general vicinity of humans - but not necessarily close to them.
Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated - thanks!