cat question... possibly 1 more?

Hey everyone, been a while since I've been on. SO, Hi . Anywho...so back in march we sadly lost Bentley which brought us to 3 . Bentley was alpha...the dynamic is ok...Zoey has her pissy little moments with spot sometimes other times they groom heads briefly. You See Ceasar N Zoey are the more independent type...tolerate other cats. Poor Spot on the other hand, seems kind of lonely for kitty companionship. Part of me doesnt want to mess up the dynamic as u never know but it would just be nice to see Spot with a snuggle buddy again thoughts on the matter?

If you have space & can afford another one - keep your eyes out for the right 'snuggle buddy'. Try not to just take home the first cat you meet, but rather pick someone for the purrsonality to best match Spot.

I guess Im just fighting with myself cuz I like how the more independent cats' personality have started to come out with there being less cats...i just feel for spot.

Hmmm... this would be a tough decision. Sounds like you need to choose favorites. No, don't worry, I'm sure you love all of your cats equally. It sounds like it might just be time to add another cat to your home again.

Welll... A kitten would be least threatening to the established order. But then, a grown cat might fit in just fine...