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Intergrating cats - PLEASE HELP!!

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Hi everyone how are you all? Sorry for posting yet again, but I really need some help/advice please.
We have 2 female cats, 6 yrs old, and have recently in the last 2 months adopted a ferral 6 month old male. Before he was neutered, he was living in our cottage. One he was "done" and all his blood tests come back normal, he was then put into his "saferoom", which is actually my bedroom (needless to say im now sleeping on the couch!!).
He did his 7 days in his room, with no contact, then a week ago, I started bringing him into the lounge, in the carrier, to meet the girls. The usual happened, hissing, growling etc.
Tonight, we did the usual, Rusty, sat closer to the cage, and was watching him, growled a few times, but that was it. Misty, hissed 3-5 times, growled a bit, then just sat there watching him. As I picked his cage up to take him back to the bedroom, Misty sat up, and looked like she was going to go for him. Can I just add though, when in his carrier, he is as good as gold, no hissing or growling etc.
What can I do? It just seems a very long road, and although I have had cats all my life this is the first time I have had to intergrate.
Ive read endless articles, some contradict what the other says.
If any one can help me I would be so grateful, plus I miss my bed
post #2 of 4
Well, have you done any scent swapping, and having them eat treats on opposite sides of a closed door on a blanket or towel filled with ALL their scents (to associate good things with the smell of each other)? The above are things we did when integrating before we got to the point you are currently at!

Here's an article you can read, that is a good resource provided on this very site:

http://www.thecatsite.com/Behavior/4...cing-Cats.html

I'm not sure if I responded to you before, but in my case, our female didn't take kindly to the newcomers (yes, we integrated TWO new young males into our household at the same time), and since you currently have TWO females, you may have your work cut out for you. You just never know with cats. Some integrations go smoothly, some require more time and effort. (ours took 5 months until we had peace again).

BTW, way can't you sleep in your bedroom some of the time with the new guy? Can't you split up your nights - some with your girls, some with the new fellow?
post #3 of 4
Hi, MissPremier!

I've found the book, "Cat Vs. Cat: Keeping Peace When You Have More Than One Cat" by Pam Johnson-Bennett to be an invaluable aid to understanding what goes on between cats in a multi-cat household, and highly recommend it. Chapter 4 is devoted entirely to introductions.

Feliway is very effective at calming most kitties and is something else you might look into. You'll need one plugin per average-sized room (Amazon.com sells multi-packs at GREAT prices).

Good luck! I know just how very frustrating it is when our fur-children don't get along like they 'should'!

AC
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Thread Starter 
Thank you both for your replies. I will be trying out your recommendations today, hopefully they will work.
I cannot sleep in my room, because, when I try, he bombards me with licks, love bites (sometimes a bit to hard), touching my face and if I go under the duvet, he starts attacking me. He has a lot of energy, and I play with him every day trying to make him tired, but he has an endless supply of energy lol. x
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