Don't know what to do

Many rescues require cats to be indoor-only, and/or not be declawed. Those rules are pretty common. Requiring cats to wear a collar and tags is a new one to me. I know you said all cats must wear them, but you might want to clarify that with the rescue. If they don't have an indoor-only requirement, could the collar rule be for cats who may go out?

I'm not a fan of collars myself, so I understand why you're upset. Why not ask about microchipping the cat as an alternative to the collar?
I've put in bold letters what would be the clincher for me.

It's difficult to believe that a rescue, especially these days, with large numbers of cats being surrendered, would insist on a rule about collars. Especially for this poor girl who has already been returned twice, it seems to be a foolish requirement.

If you agree to keep her indoors and microchip her, I see no reason why they would refuse to let you adopt her. If they did, I have to admit that I would do what was necessary in order to give her the forever home she needs and deserves. In this case, I believe the importance of that far outweighs the discomfort of not being 100% truthful.

A zoomed-in head shot of your new kitty with your hands lovingly framed around her face would make a sweet picture and not raise any questions.

If you don't think talking to the rescue about it would be successful, I'd just fill out the form. Get a collar/tags, etc. and let her wear it for a couple days. Keep it for trips to the vet, etc. Otherwise, take it off when she's hanging out around the house, etc. If anyone asks, tell them she has a collar and wore it for a couple of days, but that you, nor her, liked it. But, that anytime she goes out of the house, you put it on her, as per rescue rules.

I'd just put a collar on the cat..

My cats have usually worn collars all the time. Pumpkin used to take hers off and hide it, but she wore one most of the time.

It's the only way I can find Kairi sometimes. That bell and tag (It's a tag from the insurance company withr his ID number on it for his safety) When he has his rabies vaccine, he'll wear that too.

Could the collar just be a requirement if the cat goes outside?

Any new cat we get always wears a collar for several months, just in case s/he gets out by mistake. We also get the newcomer microchipped, but a collar will show that your cat is not a stray and may help her get home. Even though your current cats are well-trained, that doesn't mean the new one won't accidently slip out.

It's a temporary safety issue, it shouldn't be a big deal.

Yes, people help cats with collars, if they are injured, eating out of dumpsters, obviously hungry or sick, or described as lost (much easier to identify if they still have a collar).

What exactly do you do, besides worry, when you see a cat in need without a collar?

You wrote on another thread that you are moving soon - that's an excellent time for pets to get lost, especially newer ones.

I seriously doubt that someone is going to come into your home in a few years and demand to see that your cat is still wearing a collar, LOL.

But what if you have children over who don't know the procedure? Or friends? Or workmen?
A collar doesn't Hurt the cat, so I don't see why putting one on them is such a big issue, especially when it makes for a good safety net.

If I saw a cat with a collar on, I'd check to see how far away from home it was and react accordingly. If I see a cat with no collar, there's not too much you can do.


Indoor vs outdoor is a matter of opinion, especially when the safety issue is really a matter of the location of the house. You also have to remember 'outside' can also mean on a leash, or inclosed in the yard using something like Purrfect fence. I think you are worrying too much about this.

My indoor cats wear collars that say "INDOOR CAT" under my phone number. It's a precaution.

I wonder if the rescue would mind if you microchipped the cat rather than collaring it?

That's what I would do, too.

Quite some time ago, I had a collar on my little Yorkie. One afternoon, she just went all crazy freaking spastic in the middle of my living room floor. It was awful. Turns out, the buckle on the collar somehow got snagged on the rug and it panicked her.

I've never put collars on my cats and after that happened, the dog (who weighed less than any of my cats) didn't wear one either.

AC

I'm not disagreeing with you. My cats don't wear collars, and I find it hard to believe a rescue organization would rather force the issue than have a cat not be adopted.

I know folks on here can be... overzealous about some issues, but I hope you still adopt the cat.

PS: My cats eat (inexpensive) canned and dry food, too, and always have. Go with your heart on this one.

I would just say that the cat WILL wear a collar and adopt her!!!! I have tried many collars with my cats, and they always pull them off, no matter what. I have given up on collars . I have never heard of a rescue organization requiring a cat to wear a collar. Just say that the cat will!!!!

oh honey, don't NOT adopt her because of what people say here. There are all different kinds of cat owners here. No one way is "best", it depends on the cat (regardless of what others say). I've fed my cats Friskies and Meow Mix for years. Yes, low quality, but they have been thriving so whatever works for each cats.

Now, one question I have is, if the rescue is insisting on a collar, is she wearing one in the rescue? Have THEY put one on her? If not, then they should if that is "their" requirement. Let them stress her out until she gets used to it if she's never worn one before. Putting a collar on a full grown cat who has never worn one before is a task.....which is why none of our barn cats we have brought in have them. I don't like them either, and no cat of mine will wear one. Of course, all but one are indoor/outdoor cats and they stay close to home. I live on a farm and they all started out as barn cats.

That being said though, if I see a cat show up for the "barn cat buffet" in the morning or evening that actually HAS a collar I will try to get close to it and see if there is a contact number. To me, a cat with a collar is not allowed to roam and therefore someone is missing it. Usually there is no contact info and he/she eats and wanders off.

Actually, ANY animal with a collar around here means it belongs to someone. We actually reunited a Greyhound that got out with an older couple who were beside themselves. She ran through our back yard and was so exhausted at that point she just wanted some water. Turned out when I called the number on her tag (Greyhound rescue) that she had probably run over 20 miles over mountains. I got her owner's number from the rescue and they were in tears to know their baby was safe and sound.

Collars and tags are a good thing because animals, especially cats, will try to get out.

What?!?

Never let anyone make a decision for you, especially a decision about rescuing a cat. NO ONE who responded to your thread would tell you not to adopt this cat. A collar should hardly be the deciding factor as to whether or not you'll save her life.

Though a few members thought putting a collar on her wasn't a big deal, if you take another look, you'll see several people, including me, who understand how you feel about it. There were good suggestions as to how to get around the collar rule. Did you consider those?

What do you care if someone thinks you should or shouldn't put a collar on your cat? Why do you care that someone "bashed" you for feeding dry and wet food (BTW, most of us here on TCS do exactly that)?

Have the strength of your own convictions and do what you think is right.

From what you've told us, this kitty is going to have a very rough time finding another home. Don't let the darn collar stand in your way. Tell the rescue you'll put it on, and then throw it out when you get home if you want. But don't let that cat sit another day in the shelter when you know you have the love and patience to make the difference in her life.

Please.

A few questions to think about:

What's the best thing for the cat?

What does the cat think? (Do you believe the cat would rather wear a collar for a while in a loving forever home, or remain homeless)?

Is your bias against collars hurting the cat's future? If so, is your preference against collars worth the cat's life?

I'd just fill out the form, go get the kitty and never look back! None of my cats wear collars, and I strongly believe there is less risk of them getting out of my property than becoming entangled and injuring/killing themselves as they play and explore.

I am friends with a lot of cat breeders, and none of their cats wear collars, nor do they require the buyers of their kittens to wear them. It is a safety issue.

Enjoy your new kitty. Don't sweat the small stuff!

C

my cat, Monet, HATES the collar.. so I got him microchipped. I hope it's effective as a collar, even though it's not visible. I worry if he gets out, someone takes him home for themselves without checking to see if he's chipped and without trying to find me, his owner. I wish he'd wear a collar for my sanity's sake! Thankfully, Picasso wears a collar, but I plan on getting her chipped as well, just in case the collar breaks off and she looses it.

God forbid they manage to get out!

It sounds as though you were visiting a raw feeding forum. Some raw feeders can be rather zealous with regard to how awful commercial food is as opposed to raw food.

Don't take it to heart. Save that poor kitty, lie if you have to about the collar, feed the kitty the best you can afford by reading the labels for ingredients and avoid by-products. I'm sure you'll be a wonderful cat mom because it's obvious you already love this cat. Take her home and enjoy the love she will give you and give her the love she needs and wants.

ABSOLUTELY!!! I would probably just put on the application that you will use a collar. I can't see them taking back a cat into a shelter for such a seemingly innocuous reason. (unusual, that...to allow indoor/outdoor...are you in the United States? different countries have different feelings about that whole issue) I hope you adopt the kitty. I'm sure she will love her new home with you!

This seems a silly argument to me on both sides.

If it's the rescue's requirements, I would just put the collar on the cat and take it off every now and again, and definitely only put it on when the cat is going out to the vet or anywhere away from home with me.

If it's the only way I can get the cat, what's more important here..the cat's safety and health? Or your personal preference on looks.

I personally don't like collars either, but if it's going to get the cat out of a shelter and into my arms, you better believe I'm putting a collar on it.

But if you want an argument, then I would say that yes, I will microchip the animal and I don't want to put a collar on the animal because if my animal gets out..not only is the collar dangerous in the aspect of it getting snagged, but if a predator is after the cat and my cat is trying to hide..the jingling tags will tell the predator exactly where my cat is and ultimately lead my cat right into it's death.

Exactly...same with those bells they put on collars!