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mzjazz2u

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Originally posted by Debby
I was just saying how I felt. I just hate it that I can't be here more often like I used to before I had Amber....it is like having two full time jobs...
I miss being able to keep up with everyone and get to know new people here.
The only reason I can post so much here and keep up with things is because my children are grown. I've been where you're at and sometimes I wish I could go back.... then again sometimes I'm glad it's over!
 

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Don't feel bad Debby!!!! I just joined last month and feel a little out of place with some people, even more so when people don't respond to whatever I posted but what the heck, I have to carve my niche in this group of lovie dovies! There are so many people from all over, Iceland (of all the freaking places!!!! it's neat to meet ya!!!!), Germany, Singapore, Malaysia, S Africa, Utah, New York, Texas, etc, etc.,......it's a lot of fun, but I know what you mean, I go stir crazy if I can't keep up after two days of not being on either because of my 10 month old or because of my hubby hogging the computer. Which is why we're thinking of wireless so that I can hop on the lap top but I know my son won't let me, he struggles to keep me off the comp!!!! Lap top, he can just reach the plug and pull it!!! LOL!!!!
 

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Oh for pete's sake..........
!!!!! (I can't seem to think of your name right now, but I know it will come back to me eventually!)

Of course you're busy, you're working and taking care of your family, and little Amber (see, it's already starting to come back!) must be just starting to walk! Don't feel sad, we won't forget you, and we're happy to see you whenever you can get here.
 

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Originally posted by mzjazz2u
Well Debby, the way I see it this site is kind of like a Soap Opera in many ways! You can not watch for months and sometimes years but when you go back you can pick up on what's going on fairly quickly!
That´s a good way to look at it! I´m gonna try!
 

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Oh Debby, you silly sausage!
It is okay to feel sorry for yourself once in a while, hell I do it sometimes!

I agree, seeing people here with lots and lots of posts - funny how they have so many in such a short time! But there are lots and lots of people (including me) who love you, you have a kind, gentle soul and we can all feel it in your posts.
I can understand that your time is limited, but girlfriend, if you need time for yourself, then make some! Or else yer gonna go crazy!!!!!

 

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Hey Debby!

I know you don't really know me but I have seen and heard such nice things about you, I would really like to get to know ya!

We all know you have family stuff that needs attending to.. heck we all do, but the love for you show on the boards is unreal so girl to make a long story short

We luv ya!


Hugs!

Sam.
 

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I guess this is the thing with the message boards... just like a bus...some ppl from the start will hop onto the bus, some will get on in the middle of the journey and hoping to find a seat. I'm one of those who hop on in the middle. I admit, this board is going really fast and me being on the other side of earth, I do get this feeling when you guys meet up and all that while I'm not able to make it. I know nothing about you guys' lives but i guess it takes time...i've been here for about two months and i have yet to figure out who is who and who owns which cat....

dun feel too bad abt such things debby. we all have our own things to handle... anytime u need any update, we'll be more than happy to flood you with information..
 

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Hey Sis!

This is my first time seeing this. How can you be sad when you have such a sweetie as Amber to fill your days? Why would those who know you think bad of you for being a good responsible parent and playing with your baby instead of letting your baby grow up only knowing what the back of your head looks like!


Go and enjoy that treasure Debby and attend to your own needs and squeeze us in when you can. Don't worry about not knowing everyone, heck I am here almost all the time anymore and I don't know some of these people, and we have more joining every day.

Just know that you as a foundation and core member will always have a place here, and those who want to know what a sweetie Debby is, just hit her profile and then look through all her past posts to find out what a wonderful human being she is!
 

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Don't feel bad Deb..I don't think I got to know you very well, but I can understand why you would feel out of touch with everything that is going on in your life...You don't have apologize for that...You have been going through a hard time anyway, and we all understand completely...((hugs)) I left for a weekend, and I still haven't been able to catch up..
 
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debby

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My God, Hissy!!! Your post made me cry!!!! You are one of the most beautiful human beings I have ever met!!!!! If I ever have to leave here...(which I don't plan on) you would remain in my heart forever.
As would many others here!!!!

Thank you ALL for your posts and I feel better tonight!!! Amber IS worth missing the time I used to spend on here. Her birthday is tomorrow. Her first B-day. Wow!!! That went so fast!!!!!!!!!

I love you guys, and am hoping to have more time to spend on here when summer is over, right now I have so much to do...besides my usual stuff I have 100's of tomatoes that need canned!!


Just want to give you all a big hug!!!

*HUGS*

 

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Oh gosh... Debby, I know how you feel!! I don't know many people here anymore either. Although it's understandable that they wonder who the heck I am...there is no doubt in my mind that everyone here knows you and loves you. TCS is Debby. Plain and simple. You were the first person I met when I joined and I know that no matter when or how often I come here...I'll find you here again.


Amber is definately lucky to have a mom that spends her time with her! (((hugs))) Enjoy not having much spare time for now because they grow up sooooo fast.
 
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