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Two Rescues, Two Different Results, Help

post #1 of 9
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Hi, I am new to this forum, but I am so glad I found it. I rescued two Pixie-bobs about a month ago. They are both 8 years old, from different litters, and came from the same home. Their owner passed away and so they needed to be re-homed.

Jasper is a neutered male with feline megacolon. He requires medicine three times a day. He was left alone in his former's owner's house for weeks after her death. It took him about a day to come around. He's a sweetheart who is the biggest talker ever. He follows me from room to room and also lets me know when it is time for bed. He is a very well-adjusted, happy cat.

Now his housemate SuzieQ has been a problem. SuzieQ is a spayed female. She was taken to a local rescue center for adoption as she was more "adoptable" than Jasper with his medical condition. She was retrieved from the adoption center by the person who was caring for Jasper. I was warned she was shy, but that she would warm up.

SuzieQ set up camp behind the couch for the first week. She then moved into my bedroom where she camped behind my armoire. I put food and water wherever she hides, that is when I figure out where she is. She goes and uses the litter box when she feels its safe. She has jumped on my bed and looked at me. She has also sat with Jasper on the couch one night. She has also sat behind my vanity and watched me for a while. I could also hear her purring from under the armoire while I was tidying one day. But since then has gone back to hiding behind the couch. My boyfriend has given up hope and says that she isn't ever going to come around since it has been a month. I still have hope. Will she come around? What can I do to make her more comfortable? How long could it possibly take? Thanks in advance.
post #2 of 9
First off, I'm so glad you took these guys in and are willing to work with them, issues and all.

The poor girl is probably terrified after all the upheaval in her life - some cats adapt faster than others and she's likely just timid and uncertain. A month isn't that long for a timid cat. Since she seems to be interested in you, take some quiet time to go sit in the room with her and talk to her, don't approach her or try it interact, just chat. That way she can get used to the sound of your voice without associating it with any expectations. You can also just go and hang out with her. If she's eating, drinking and using the litter, that's a good sign. You can also try getting a shirt good and sweaty, then putting it near her food and water - that way she should start to associate your scent with good things.

Some here have also had really good luck with Feliway diffusers. I've not used them personally, but that's an option too.

Good luck. She might take awhile to come around, but she'll be worth it when she does.
post #3 of 9
Thread Starter 
Thank you so much. I was worried about her, but it seems she just needs time.
post #4 of 9
Don't make direct eye contact with her either, glance at her sideways, if you do happen to make direct eye contact, blink slowly at her.
post #5 of 9
Thread Starter 
Whenever we do see her all we see of her is her big round eyes, so that is good advice to stop looking at her in the eye. She moved form the kitchen to the couch again. I put out some wet food for her and I heard happy eating noises. Jasper is currently rubbing his face against the laptop, lol.
post #6 of 9
I think it's a great sign that she's purring

I too have a similar pair, though years younger. My huge boy is a lover - easy going, a sweetheart who will purr at a sight of me, always wants to be on top of me, close to my face, etc. The girl is shy, small, and spooks easily. I use feliway which helps them both. The girl will purr, and will chat non-stop and follow me around the house, but does not like to be picked up.

When I brought them home, the boy was out and about instantly, but it took her a long time to get adjusted [few weeks at least]. When strangers come, she trots away quickly and does not come out.

I think your girl will be fine! My girl is so sweet, she'll purr just if I touch her. I think your girl just need more time, that's all. I think the size difference in my cats also plays a role, she's about 6lb lighter than the boy. Your girl is 8... and lot happened in her life, but I"m sure she'll come around.
post #7 of 9
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I always forget that 8 is old for a cat. I had to put my cat, Cutie, down in March and she was 20. So 8 seems young to me. I suppose time will tell.
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Originally Posted by TwoPixies View Post
I always forget that 8 is old for a cat. I had to put my cat, Cutie, down in March and she was 20. So 8 seems young to me. I suppose time will tell.
I should explain.... I lost my cat Marsh a year ago to cancer, he was only 6. So when I hear 8, sounds old to me
post #9 of 9
Thread Starter 
Sorry about your loss. A kitty update:

SuzieQ was out and about two days ago, that is, I came home and she had been venturing in the kitchen. Having no time to escape to the couch she hid behind the kitchen table. I talked to her while I made dinner, but eventually she slipped back to the couch. Then yesterday morning she was in the bathroom about to use her litter box when my boyfriend walked in on her, she decided to hide behind the toilet. Then last night she was on the run again and is now upstairs where Jasper has set up camp in my room, although I'm not entirely sure where.

At least I am seeing more of her, but she is still very frantic and nervous.

My only concern is that she threw up her food yesterday. This is the second time she has done this, should I be worried?
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