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There's a guy in my townhouse building with a very cute calico kitty Tabitha. She is the sweetest thing, just purrs, purrs, purrs around everything (including but not limited to just me).
He's an alright guy I guess, nice enough to have a beer with once in a while, plus I have cats and he has a cat so we talk about cats (among ordinary day to day stuff). I have some concerns with how he treats this kitty though, so I'm going to tell you guys a few things, and you lt me know if this qualifies as negligence.
Tabitha is 4 and in her first home (he is 2nd home she's had) she was indoor/outdoor. We live in a hustle and bustle city with many cars so I worry, especially since he often lets her out, then goes to work (only to let her in again when he gets home that night, if she's around when he gets home). He lets her out as a punishement sometimes because she did something wrong or p!ssed him off in some way. A few weeks ago, we had a massive heat wave, he let her out at about 4am, and then we didn't see her for about 3 days. I had to help him look for her. We never found her but she eventually came home. More often than not, when he let's her outside, no food or water is provided. I usually bring out water for her.
He went away for the weekend and I was suppose to feed her, but he accidentally locked his door, so I couldn't get in to freshen water or provide any food (he did provide food prior to leaving). When I called him and told him that the door was locked and that the manager could drop by and unlock it, he said don't worry about it, Tabitha will probably be fine.
Anytime he has a guy over, the cat gets the boot, without any food/water supplied outside. He just opens the front building door and "out you go!"
Although Tabitha is an indoor/outdoor, she is not up to date on any vaccinations (whether they be for rabies or outdoor parasites). He has had her since April and it doesn't seem like a vet appt is in the near future.
Yesterday, Tabitha almost got ran over by a car. This group of people rang my buzzer with tabby in tow because 1G wasn't answering, and they were shook up. He didn't answer because he was at work. I left a message on his voicemail explaining what had nearly happened, his response via text: HAHA my cat is so stupid sometimes.
How do I know all of this? We're friends so he tells he what he does because he doesn't see anything wrong with how he treats. it makes being friends difficult for me.
Am I being too worry-wort or sensntive about Tabitha or is he doing soemthing wrong?
Yes I know it could be worse, he could beat her or intentionally withhold food (instead of what he does do, which is not think of providing it) but it bothers me to no end.
He's an alright guy I guess, nice enough to have a beer with once in a while, plus I have cats and he has a cat so we talk about cats (among ordinary day to day stuff). I have some concerns with how he treats this kitty though, so I'm going to tell you guys a few things, and you lt me know if this qualifies as negligence.
Tabitha is 4 and in her first home (he is 2nd home she's had) she was indoor/outdoor. We live in a hustle and bustle city with many cars so I worry, especially since he often lets her out, then goes to work (only to let her in again when he gets home that night, if she's around when he gets home). He lets her out as a punishement sometimes because she did something wrong or p!ssed him off in some way. A few weeks ago, we had a massive heat wave, he let her out at about 4am, and then we didn't see her for about 3 days. I had to help him look for her. We never found her but she eventually came home. More often than not, when he let's her outside, no food or water is provided. I usually bring out water for her.
He went away for the weekend and I was suppose to feed her, but he accidentally locked his door, so I couldn't get in to freshen water or provide any food (he did provide food prior to leaving). When I called him and told him that the door was locked and that the manager could drop by and unlock it, he said don't worry about it, Tabitha will probably be fine.
Anytime he has a guy over, the cat gets the boot, without any food/water supplied outside. He just opens the front building door and "out you go!"
Although Tabitha is an indoor/outdoor, she is not up to date on any vaccinations (whether they be for rabies or outdoor parasites). He has had her since April and it doesn't seem like a vet appt is in the near future.
Yesterday, Tabitha almost got ran over by a car. This group of people rang my buzzer with tabby in tow because 1G wasn't answering, and they were shook up. He didn't answer because he was at work. I left a message on his voicemail explaining what had nearly happened, his response via text: HAHA my cat is so stupid sometimes.
How do I know all of this? We're friends so he tells he what he does because he doesn't see anything wrong with how he treats. it makes being friends difficult for me.
Am I being too worry-wort or sensntive about Tabitha or is he doing soemthing wrong?
Yes I know it could be worse, he could beat her or intentionally withhold food (instead of what he does do, which is not think of providing it) but it bothers me to no end.