Hey Everyone!
This is my first post because I am trying to figure out what is best for this amazing feral cat that I've fallen in love with!! I've also never had cats before... we always had dogs growing up because my mom is allergic to cats. Now that I'm an adult, it doesn't matter, but I've still never had one.
I moved to Hawaii five months ago and there are tons of feral cats here due to warm weather, no predators, and so on. There are a lot of them that are in the resort where we live and three in particular have adopted us. I've started buying cat food in bulk and they come inside and eat every day. (Side note: yes they were all already spayed/neutered before we even got here, they have had their ears clipped which is what they do in Hawaii to show they have done this.)
There's Penguin, who is definitely the scardey cat of the bunch. She gets freaked out if you even look at her. She comes in to eat but doesn't linger.
Then there's Tiger, who was cautious at first but now he's warmed up to us and is mostly lovable and sweet and likes to be petted and scratched behind the ear, but he can still be a little jumpy at times.
And finally, there's Mowsie (so named because she doesn't meow, she squeaks like a mouse) and she's by far my favorite. She was wary in the beginning, but she quickly warmed up to us and is the most affectionate cat I've ever met. She's more like a dog in a cat's body because she constantly wants affection and love and she LOVES to play. She constantly plays with the toys I bought for her.
I think all three of them might be brother/sisters because they are the same size and have a few similar markings (though all different colors.) They spend all their time together when Mowsie isn't with us.
She has pretty much decided that she is my cat because she spends 95% of her time in the house now. We still don't have a litterbox but it doesn't matter because she's like a dog... she only goes outside. And she lets us know when she wants to go out (which is next to never.) I work from home and she comes in the house and sleeps next to me all day or plays with toys. And then at night she sleeps at the foot of our bed!!!
I have come to completely *adore* this little cat. I love all three of them, but I don't think Penguin is ever going to come around, and though Tiger is friendly and hangs out in the house sometimes he's definitely not like Mowsie.
If we were planning on living here for a long time it would make everything easy. However, the company who moved us here is now talking about having us move to Florida (probably not anytime soon, but it's still something to consider) and I don't know what to do.
I mean if we leave the cats here they should be fine, they survived without us before and they're constantly catching geckos and people who come here on vacation feed them (but then they are gone after a week.)
I wish I could just keep all three of them but I know my boyfriend will not be okay with that, plus moving three cats on a plane is not fun and Penguin is basically still feral. What I really want to do is keep Mowsie (and bf is okay with this.) I am pretty sure that she would want to go with us because she spends all her time with me anyway over her buddies, but I just feel so bad separating them!!! If they are brother/sisters I don't want to take her away from them. But on the other hand, I would feel ten times WORSE abandoning her after all this.
So you see my dilemma!!!
I am completely devoted to caring for this cat, but my question is... is keeping her the best thing for HER?
I mean I would be taking her from an environment where there are no cars and no predators to a place where there's plenty of both. She probably wouldn't complain about being an indoor cat because she almost never goes outside anymore anyway by her own choice. But I wouldn't want to deny her from going outside either unless I had to.
I just don't know what to do!!!
Feedback, thoughts, suggestions... anything!? Thank you so much in advance for reading my super long post and replying!!!
xoxo
-Tien
This is my first post because I am trying to figure out what is best for this amazing feral cat that I've fallen in love with!! I've also never had cats before... we always had dogs growing up because my mom is allergic to cats. Now that I'm an adult, it doesn't matter, but I've still never had one.
I moved to Hawaii five months ago and there are tons of feral cats here due to warm weather, no predators, and so on. There are a lot of them that are in the resort where we live and three in particular have adopted us. I've started buying cat food in bulk and they come inside and eat every day. (Side note: yes they were all already spayed/neutered before we even got here, they have had their ears clipped which is what they do in Hawaii to show they have done this.)
There's Penguin, who is definitely the scardey cat of the bunch. She gets freaked out if you even look at her. She comes in to eat but doesn't linger.
Then there's Tiger, who was cautious at first but now he's warmed up to us and is mostly lovable and sweet and likes to be petted and scratched behind the ear, but he can still be a little jumpy at times.
And finally, there's Mowsie (so named because she doesn't meow, she squeaks like a mouse) and she's by far my favorite. She was wary in the beginning, but she quickly warmed up to us and is the most affectionate cat I've ever met. She's more like a dog in a cat's body because she constantly wants affection and love and she LOVES to play. She constantly plays with the toys I bought for her.
I think all three of them might be brother/sisters because they are the same size and have a few similar markings (though all different colors.) They spend all their time together when Mowsie isn't with us.
She has pretty much decided that she is my cat because she spends 95% of her time in the house now. We still don't have a litterbox but it doesn't matter because she's like a dog... she only goes outside. And she lets us know when she wants to go out (which is next to never.) I work from home and she comes in the house and sleeps next to me all day or plays with toys. And then at night she sleeps at the foot of our bed!!!
I have come to completely *adore* this little cat. I love all three of them, but I don't think Penguin is ever going to come around, and though Tiger is friendly and hangs out in the house sometimes he's definitely not like Mowsie.
If we were planning on living here for a long time it would make everything easy. However, the company who moved us here is now talking about having us move to Florida (probably not anytime soon, but it's still something to consider) and I don't know what to do.
I mean if we leave the cats here they should be fine, they survived without us before and they're constantly catching geckos and people who come here on vacation feed them (but then they are gone after a week.)
I wish I could just keep all three of them but I know my boyfriend will not be okay with that, plus moving three cats on a plane is not fun and Penguin is basically still feral. What I really want to do is keep Mowsie (and bf is okay with this.) I am pretty sure that she would want to go with us because she spends all her time with me anyway over her buddies, but I just feel so bad separating them!!! If they are brother/sisters I don't want to take her away from them. But on the other hand, I would feel ten times WORSE abandoning her after all this.
So you see my dilemma!!!
I mean I would be taking her from an environment where there are no cars and no predators to a place where there's plenty of both. She probably wouldn't complain about being an indoor cat because she almost never goes outside anymore anyway by her own choice. But I wouldn't want to deny her from going outside either unless I had to.
I just don't know what to do!!!
Feedback, thoughts, suggestions... anything!? Thank you so much in advance for reading my super long post and replying!!!
xoxo
-Tien