My husband and I took in orphaned kittens that needed bottle fed. When we took them in they were around 2 weeks old, and we planned to get them to their new homes between 9-11 weeks old.
We had 3 kittens, one passed away, and the other two are very healthy and growing well. They are now about 9 weeks old. We had originally promised the grey kitten to a friend of mine when he reached adoptable age, but he passed away. My husband was very fond of the girl kitten and I was very fond of all the kittens...when the grey one passed I let him decide if my friend could choose one of the two kittens or if he wanted to keep the girl and give my friend the boy. The girl kitten is a very sweet kitten, loves to cuddle and be held/petted/sit in laps. The boy kitten is very sweet too but a little more playful and not as much of a lap kitty although he is getting to be one. They are both super funny and cute, and when we call "kittens" run to us like little puppies, and they always greeted us whenever we came home, at the door.
Well hubby decided to let my friend pick which cat she wanted, and she chose the girl. We just gave her the girl this weekend, as they have been off bottles for a couple weeks and doing very well. I bawled like a little baby when the girl left...and now we both feel like horrible people. We already felt bad for the kittens not having a cat mama and only having us to feed them & such...and then one died so we felt worse as seemed to understand that one of them went missing...and now that we have given one away we worry. We are worried the little boy that we still have misses his sister...he has loads of other kitties to play with and they all love him...and I am home all day and make sure he has tons of play time and he is certainly loved and purrs constantly and sleeps between us in bed at night, but we both kinda have some guilt for separating them. Especially since the girl went to a home far away (3 hrs) from us, so she had to go to a new environment, new cats and no brother. I don't want her to think we didn't keep her because we didn't love her because we did...so much! Since we gave her away, we have done nothing but regret it and wish we could ask for her back. My friend LOVES her and is a great mom to her so it isn't that she is not being cared for, we just don't know if she feels sadness for being moved, or if being loved by her new family is enough? They say she has adjusted very well and seems very happy. I guess it also sucks that we feel so sad and it seems she may have forgotten us already...do kittens forget that quick? In a way I guess it would be good if she did because then she would definitely be happy in her new home?
I feel totally dumb for posting this, just so everyone knows. I just don't know anywhere else I can ask cat questions, especially as silly as this one!! We have never had kittens that we didn't keep, and initially when we took in the orphaned kittens the goal was to feed them, get them healthy and adopt them out at 10 weeks old. When the first one passed, we both got even more attached to the remaining two, and when we adopted the one out we basically decided to keep the last one because we just cant imagine him leaving too. We apparently are not cut out to foster baby kittens, as we get too attached.
We had 3 kittens, one passed away, and the other two are very healthy and growing well. They are now about 9 weeks old. We had originally promised the grey kitten to a friend of mine when he reached adoptable age, but he passed away. My husband was very fond of the girl kitten and I was very fond of all the kittens...when the grey one passed I let him decide if my friend could choose one of the two kittens or if he wanted to keep the girl and give my friend the boy. The girl kitten is a very sweet kitten, loves to cuddle and be held/petted/sit in laps. The boy kitten is very sweet too but a little more playful and not as much of a lap kitty although he is getting to be one. They are both super funny and cute, and when we call "kittens" run to us like little puppies, and they always greeted us whenever we came home, at the door.
Well hubby decided to let my friend pick which cat she wanted, and she chose the girl. We just gave her the girl this weekend, as they have been off bottles for a couple weeks and doing very well. I bawled like a little baby when the girl left...and now we both feel like horrible people. We already felt bad for the kittens not having a cat mama and only having us to feed them & such...and then one died so we felt worse as seemed to understand that one of them went missing...and now that we have given one away we worry. We are worried the little boy that we still have misses his sister...he has loads of other kitties to play with and they all love him...and I am home all day and make sure he has tons of play time and he is certainly loved and purrs constantly and sleeps between us in bed at night, but we both kinda have some guilt for separating them. Especially since the girl went to a home far away (3 hrs) from us, so she had to go to a new environment, new cats and no brother. I don't want her to think we didn't keep her because we didn't love her because we did...so much! Since we gave her away, we have done nothing but regret it and wish we could ask for her back. My friend LOVES her and is a great mom to her so it isn't that she is not being cared for, we just don't know if she feels sadness for being moved, or if being loved by her new family is enough? They say she has adjusted very well and seems very happy. I guess it also sucks that we feel so sad and it seems she may have forgotten us already...do kittens forget that quick? In a way I guess it would be good if she did because then she would definitely be happy in her new home?
I feel totally dumb for posting this, just so everyone knows. I just don't know anywhere else I can ask cat questions, especially as silly as this one!! We have never had kittens that we didn't keep, and initially when we took in the orphaned kittens the goal was to feed them, get them healthy and adopt them out at 10 weeks old. When the first one passed, we both got even more attached to the remaining two, and when we adopted the one out we basically decided to keep the last one because we just cant imagine him leaving too. We apparently are not cut out to foster baby kittens, as we get too attached.