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Agression - Cat taking offensive with visitors

post #1 of 10
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Had the strangest experience this weekend. Had a couple of friends over and one needed to use the facilities. I showed her where it was and then went out into the yard. My 3 year old domestic short hair cat was apparently not pleased with her being in the house.

He waited outside the bathroom door. When she opened the door he was making this growling/meow. She tried to invite him into the bathroom and reassure him it was ok. He continue to make noises and then lunged at her. She closed the door and could see claws coming under the door. She opened the window and called me in to remove "attack cat" before she would come out of the bathroom.

While this was funny, I don't understand what happened. The cat has always been weary of strangers, but normally just goes and hides until he is comfortable with the people in the house. Worse case, they want to pet him and get too close. Then he's hiss and run away. This was the first time he's ever taken the offensive.

He's had his regualr checkups and is not sick. I've never seen him act like this. What do you think is going on here? and how should I have handled it? I'd like to correct the behavior and not worry about whether I need to lock him up when someone comes to vist.

Thoughts?
post #2 of 10
Was this kitten bottle fed? I have noticed in my years of working with cats bottle fed domestic cats that where not "socialized" tend to have aggression issues when they grow up.

If this cat was not bottled fed, how old is he/she? What is the history of the animal to the best of your knowledge? Is he/she castrated? Does the cat act this way to all visitors or just some?
post #3 of 10
Some kitties just don't like visitors in their domain. I have one that freaks when strangers come in the house. Put the kitty in a room with the door closed before/when visitors showed up. Be sure there's water, litter box, and toys, too.
post #4 of 10
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Not sure about the bottle feeding or history. I adopted him when he was about 5 months old from a shelter. At the time he seemed well socialized. In fact, my only criteria when I asked them to suggest a kitten was that it want to be near me. I didn't want a cat that would only come out for feeding, but one that would want to play, enjoy being pet etc.

I think some of his issue with visitors stems from the fact that I was living/working out of state for the first 1 1/2 years thatI owned the cat. Since I didnt have a big social network there, I rarely had visitors at the house. I think he got used to it being just us. When someone did visit me, the cat would immediately bolt into my bedroom and hide until they were gone.

I moved back into the area where I grew up and attended college about 9 months ago and have people coming by the house on a more regular basis now. The cat had the same reaction here, but has become comfortable with some family members and regular visitors.

I'll definitely put him in a room if I'm having a group of people over because I don't want a group to stress him, but if I lock him up every time someone visits am I just adding to the problem and preventing him from acclimating to new people? or is he old enough (3 yrs) that the behavior/reaction to new people is already learned and won't change.

While I would prefer he be unphased by new people in the house, I'm actually fine with his going into the bedroom to camp out until they leave. Going on the attack, however, is a different story.
post #5 of 10
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Originally Posted by rielly View Post
Not sure about the bottle feeding or history. I adopted him when he was about 5 months old from a shelter. At the time he seemed well socialized. In fact, my only criteria when I asked them to suggest a kitten was that it want to be near me. I didn't want a cat that would only come out for feeding, but one that would want to play, enjoy being pet etc.

I think some of his issue with visitors stems from the fact that I was living/working out of state for the first 1 1/2 years thatI owned the cat. Since I didnt have a big social network there, I rarely had visitors at the house. I think he got used to it being just us. When someone did visit me, the cat would immediately bolt into my bedroom and hide until they were gone.

I moved back into the area where I grew up and attended college about 9 months ago and have people coming by the house on a more regular basis now. The cat had the same reaction here, but has become comfortable with some family members and regular visitors.

I'll definitely put him in a room if I'm having a group of people over because I don't want a group to stress him, but if I lock him up every time someone visits am I just adding to the problem and preventing him from acclimating to new people? or is he old enough (3 yrs) that the behavior/reaction to new people is already learned and won't change.

While I would prefer he be unphased by new people in the house, I'm actually fine with his going into the bedroom to camp out until they leave. Going on the attack, however, is a different story.
Now I am not sure what else to say other then all cats are individuals . That is my polite way of saying some cats act in ways we people do not always understand .

So with the above information presented I can give you some guess to why he does what he does. As someone else pointed out cats are territorial animals. That along with him growing up with you and not a lot of "socialization" could be why he acted the way he did. Was that a one time occurrence by the way? By that I mean him acting like an "attach cat".

As far as putting him in the room (water, litter pan and toys) every time you have a "stranger" over is your call. I will say if you have a lot of guests that is a good idea. But for one or two "new people" I would say see how he acts around them. If he is calm and "friendly" have the people give him a favorite treat. If he acts aggressive then put him into "his room". Another thing to mention is if he is acting "calmly" with the stranger while getting treats do not allow the stranger to touch the cat. Allow the cat to get used to the strangers scent/presence over many visits (if there will be more then one ) before petting the cat.

Hope that was somewhat helpful. If you need any clarification do not hesitate to ask .
post #6 of 10
I don't know if it works with older cats, but since I've had mine I typically greet guests with greenies for them to toss to the munchkins, or they are allowed to get some from the cabinet after they come in and throw them for the cats to chase which is fun for all.

I was told that way visitors are looked at as giant walking bags of food rather than intruders. It usually works to date *knock on wood*, with the exception of people that wear loud shoes like noisy flipflops or hard bottom shoes which scare them from the noise or are carrying something unusual. Worth a try, and it could even be little pieces of sandwich meat... whatever.
post #7 of 10
Thread Starter 
I'll definitely try the "bribe his affection with treats" approach and let you know how it works out.

Thanks for the info. I've always had dogs and this is my first cat. Their behavior isn't as easy to interpret/influence as dogs.

In reading the aggression thread I also found yet another influencing factor that is, to an extent, beyond my control. The neighborhood has a very large stray cat population and one of my neighbors feeds the strays. I'm sure my cat is seeing them acrossed the street and passing through my yard which is likely triggering his territorial instincts and adding to my problem. I trapped some of the strays before they went into heat and learned animal control had taken more than 40 cats out of my neighborhood in a 2 month period so there's A LOT of cats wandering around outside my windows. Stopped trapping when I saw another 8 kittens in my neighbor's yard and realized I was fighting a losing battle.
post #8 of 10
Friday does the exact same thing, even down to attacking people when they come out of the bathroom (where he is fed). In his case, it's an issue of territory. He's never aggressive to other animals when I bring them in, only people. If people try to make friends with him it seems to make it worse. If they ignore him they pass his muster. What I do with him when people come over depends on who the people are. Weirdly, he does well with my young nieces. They know not to pet him and he goes in another room and that's that. My cat savvy friends do fine as well. People who don't do well are people who insist they know cats and can win him over. In that case, I shut him up. He cannot be won over. The harder they try, the harder he bites.

They way I react to him really goes against my grain. I want to correct him when he attacks but that seems to only make him worse. I have to pick him up, calm him down and remove him from the room if he gets riled up. I know he's riled up if he meows at the guests. That's his signal that he's unhappy with their presence. Once that happens, he goes in another room for their safety and his.

He does seem to have gotten better in recent years. He's 12 now and seems more mellow. However, he's suffered with hyperthyroid and most recently renal failure and he may just be staying away from guests because he doesn't feel well.
post #9 of 10
Oh my gosh, yeah if you have a neighbor that is attracting random cats from all over the place, and your cat sees its virtual territory constantly invaded... yeah, that is bound to stress out many cats and get them in a very defensive mood.

We only had a single cat, the neighbors, constantly coming up to the window and Wesley and Buttercup would poof up and become very apprehensive. Luckily I've shoo'd her off enough that she avoids the area.

Sorry kitties, but this is Wesley and Buttercup's territory, and as an indoor/outdoor human its my job to defend the borders heh!
post #10 of 10
Thread Starter 
Jennifer - Thanks for your reply. So nice to know my Kitty's not the only bathroom guard / attack cat out there. Seems to be the exact same behavior. Similarily, my cat "cannot be won over." He hasn't bitten anyone (yet) but the harder they try the more weary of them he becomes. The people he tollerates well are the one who have left him to his devices with the exception of an occassional treat. The one's who are determined to "win him over" cause him to hiss and do what I can only describe his "crazy cat meow." It like a loud screachy meow.

Ducman69 - At one point, 3 neighbors were feeding the strays and the stray population exploded. No exaggeration that animal control took 40+ cats out of here before they went into heat. The reason I'd started trapping was because a pack of strays was growing in my backyard. They liked sleeping (and pooing) on the mulch in my flower beds. It started with 1 cat, then 2, then 4...when I started to trap them, there were, at least, 8 cats sleeping in shifts of 3 at a time in my yard. I know my neighbor thinks she is "helping" the cats by putting out food, but the reality is, she isn't altering them and is just drawing more strays into our neighborhood to reproduce and compete for increasingly limited resources. At this point I'd say, a conservative estimate is 12-15 cats milling around. I guess its time to put the traps out again. I don't like doing it, but I don't enjoy cleaning cat poop from the lawn/flower beds, the constant threat of flea bites, and now knowing my cat is being provoked by the strays reminds me I need to police the borders
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