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My fiancee lied to me today, and it just broke my heart into a million pieces.
So to tell the full story, his ex girlfriend came over one night, and it was weird- first of all we'd been drinking and I had never met her before, so I told Kyle that I didn't think it was a good day for her to come over, and I like to be 100% myself and sober when I meet new people. Well, he said it was going to be only for a little while, and I got really upset and went to take a nap, and as I was laying in bed I realized how wrong the whole situation is, her coming over and me having to stay in my bedroom because of that!! So, I got so worked up that I left, and because i couldn't drive I went inside my car and in the parking lot and started crying. It was awful!!
when Kyle realized I'd been gone he just texted I guess I'll see you later. He didn't know where I was, he knew I'd been drinking and my car was far out of sight , and I started to get even more upset at his lack of concern. Later I just got bored sitting out there and I came back inside, and I said hello to his ex, and she seemed to kno so much about our relationship that it just broke my heart that he has been telling her all these details and not telling me that he is talking to her at all!! The next day I asked him to stop talking to her about our relationship and just cool it down with her because they seem to be inappropriately too close.
So, today he was texting someone named Jason, I never heard of this person before, and I had a bad feeling about it...
Well surprise surprise, I followed my gut instinct and reverse looked up the number from his phone, and it turns out it's his ex, and he put her under "Jason" in his phone so that I don't know it's her!!
It's sooo wrong.. and i don't know what to do, he is apologiziing but its not enough...
i don't want us to break up, we are engaged and really seriuos and have invested a lot in our relationship, and things have been great other than this incident with the ex...but at the same time this raises a huge red flag!!! Is it possible to save our relationship if so what am I supposed to do....ughh this is awfullllllll
So to tell the full story, his ex girlfriend came over one night, and it was weird- first of all we'd been drinking and I had never met her before, so I told Kyle that I didn't think it was a good day for her to come over, and I like to be 100% myself and sober when I meet new people. Well, he said it was going to be only for a little while, and I got really upset and went to take a nap, and as I was laying in bed I realized how wrong the whole situation is, her coming over and me having to stay in my bedroom because of that!! So, I got so worked up that I left, and because i couldn't drive I went inside my car and in the parking lot and started crying. It was awful!!
when Kyle realized I'd been gone he just texted I guess I'll see you later. He didn't know where I was, he knew I'd been drinking and my car was far out of sight , and I started to get even more upset at his lack of concern. Later I just got bored sitting out there and I came back inside, and I said hello to his ex, and she seemed to kno so much about our relationship that it just broke my heart that he has been telling her all these details and not telling me that he is talking to her at all!! The next day I asked him to stop talking to her about our relationship and just cool it down with her because they seem to be inappropriately too close.
So, today he was texting someone named Jason, I never heard of this person before, and I had a bad feeling about it...
Well surprise surprise, I followed my gut instinct and reverse looked up the number from his phone, and it turns out it's his ex, and he put her under "Jason" in his phone so that I don't know it's her!!
It's sooo wrong.. and i don't know what to do, he is apologiziing but its not enough...
i don't want us to break up, we are engaged and really seriuos and have invested a lot in our relationship, and things have been great other than this incident with the ex...but at the same time this raises a huge red flag!!! Is it possible to save our relationship if so what am I supposed to do....ughh this is awfullllllll