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Originally Posted by bastetservant 
Sorry you are having the problems with the cats peeing inappropriately. These problems are very common with the changes that have occurred in the house (dog and baby). But, this problem can be solved. BUT, you must do certain things that have been recommended above, because they really do work. If you read previous threads on this forum (as well as stickies and articles), you will find that people write about this kind of thing (very similar), very often, and the problem does go away, once people finally follow the directions already given on this thread.
You must use 3 OPEN litter boxes in different places in your house (doesn't matter that the hooded ones worked in the past). You must use Dr. Elsey's Cat Attract litter. Other litter is not going to help. Changing to Cat Attract litter may be the most important thing (doesn't matter what you are now using or how long). Another thing of major importance is cleaning up previous soiled places correctly. For that you must use Nok Out (Stink Free may work, but I read many fewer testimonials about it here). Nature's Miracle does not work for a lot of people, as reported here over and over. You need to use a black light to find the places soiled. You need to soak the areas in the Nok Out (buy a couple gallons on line) and let the area dry thoroughly, which will take a few days.
Your cats need to be confined for an extended period of time in a room with the litter boxes (to be moved to various places in the house once they are integrated back into the house again gradually). They need interactive toys (best are Da Bird or Go Cat Dancer and treat balls). In that room you need to play with them and cuddle them. Eventually, once they are using the litter boxes all the time, bring them out into the rest of the house when you can supervise them. Put them back in the room when you can't. And make the visits out (supervised) longer and longer, until you can trust them.
Clothes need to be put away at all times. And the dog must be trained to not chase the cats. Letting them outside would be cruel. They are not prepared for that. You will soon have dead or lost cats.
Feliway diffusers and spray (must be resprayed daily) will help a great deal. But you have to have enough of them.
All of this will cost a lot initially (but the Feliway and Dr. Elsey's may not be needed indefinitely). But aren't your pet cats worth it? These problems were not of their making. They are sensitive creatures and their lives have been disrupted dramatically. I'm not saying you shouldn't have a dog or a baby (of course), just that conditions need to be adjusted to make this work for them and your family. They are acting out because they are stressed and don't know what to do to make their lives better. They are relying on you.
It is very, very difficult to rehome adult cats. I know as I volunteer at a shelter. And letting them out may very well result in their death.
Good luck to you. Please feel free to ask questions here regarding how to further work on these problems. But saying that you've done this or that, use this or that, and those things not being exactly the advice you've been given, means you aren't really committed, yet, to solving the problem, or you don't believe the advice you have been given. We here really want to help you and your cats and we speak from a lot of experience. We have given our time and effort to write here because we want to help. Please let us help.
Best wishes,
Robin
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Adding to that: Steve, Feline pine was the only litter that made my cat pee in the living room - almost immediately - a lot of cats have this problem with this litter, due to the texture and the scent... it is absolutely the worst for litter training....
Cat Attract is a must for re-training. Here is a rebate form for a free bag - up to 40lbs:
http://www.preciouscat.com/pdf/Free_...ll_8-17-06.pdf
Nature's miracle do not work... Nok Out is the best! Make sure to buy a LOT - you really need to soak it - spraying is not the way to go.... You need to remove the urine with a paper towel or cloth, pour Nok Out on the area, leave it for a while, the remove the excess and leave it air drying - depending on the surface, it can take weeks air drying... You need to protect the area from the cat - covering with aluminum foil helps. It is very very important to allow the time to air-dry so the enzymes have the time to "eat" the odor causing agents in the urine.
Litter boxes:
They have to be large, open with 3-4 inches of litter, and located in an open, quiet room, preferably in a corner, where the kitty will have a full view of the room but will not feel trapped. End of corridors, opposite sides of doors work perfectly for this. Not inside of closets, garages, or laundry rooms. These places can startle the kitty with noise, trap odors, or make the kitty feel trapped in the case of the dog approaching them.
Feliway: you can buy multi-packs from Amazon, at an excellent price here is a link:
Feliway 6-pack
One plug-in per room where they frequent the most is where you should place them.
Since you have kids and dogs, make sure your kitties have places to go - vertical spaces - window sills, cat trees, and wall shelves. You can build wall shelves very cheaply - I built mine cheaply, pretty much a set of wall book shelves, the kitties love it! This reduces the stress tremendously, as the dog nor the kids can not get in there... Here is my kitty wall:
http://www.thecatsite.com/forums/sho...ght=kitty+wall
Good luck - I hope these changes help you

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