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Going out of town - freaking out a little!

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I leave Monday for a five-day business trip to New Orleans ( Woohooo!) but I'm starting to freak out a little bit about the kittens. A close friend will be staying at the house so they will have someone there, but I'm just worried. He loves S&G and I know he will try to take good care of them, but he also has to work a lot and since it's summer he will be going out with friends, etc. as well, so I'm afraid they'll be alone a lot.

I'm so happy they have each other to play with, but I'm worried that they'll get scared when I don't come home for days - do you think this is a reasonable worry, or that since they'll (hopefully) have someone at the house, they won't think about me much?

What sort of directives do you give your catsitters? I'm preparing a small (ha) document with feeding, litter, etc. instructions and don't want to leave anything out.

I'm sure everything will go perfectly and the kittens will miss me just enough but not too much and will give me lots of love when I get back Friday night... but it's hard to get that through my worried brain right now

Any general advice you could provide would be greatly appreciated!
post #2 of 7
First, is your friend absolutely, totally reliable? I mean, he'll definitely be in the house morning and evening, no overnight visits with friends, that sort of thing? If not, get yourself a bonded pet sitter instead....better to have someone you can count on to visit twice a day to feed, clean and play with your kitties if there's even a chance your friend might not be in the house every single day and taking care of the babies on a consistent basis - they're little - he can't feed them at 9:00 am one day and then not til 2:00 pm the next, for example. OK, that vent over....

Make sure your friend has authorizations on record at your vet and the e-vet's office (and that he knows where the vets are) and that he has your cell and other contact information at the ready. God forbid there's an issue, but you don't want any delays at the vet in case you were unreachable. Ask your vet now what they need to have to authorize your friend to permit treatment, and how it's going to be paid for.

Sounds like you're going to have your friend over for a dry run - where the food is, the litter, the toys (make sure he understands toys can't be left out, the kittens can't be allowed to access anything, like dental floss, that they can swallow - you know, like you've babyproofed your house - and he must be sure the toilet seats are down, that appliances aren't started til he's done a head count of the kitties, that sort of thing).

I'm sure all will be well too - but it doesn't hurt to try and think of every eventuality first and plan for it.
post #3 of 7
I think your kittens will be fine. They'll have each other to play with and get tired out from running laps or wrestling or whatever they get up to. Leaving a detailed instruction sheet like you're doing is a good idea, that's what I've done when going away and having a friend watch the cats. Actually, the girls' 'Uncle' Scott has been at our house enough and also watched them when we're away that I don't even have to write anything down for him anymore. He knows the food, the meds, everything.

A suggestion to add to your shee, if you haven't already, is your vet's phone number, and if they don't have a 24 hour emergency number, then also include a number for an emergency vet too, just in case. And of course your contact info and all that too. You'll still worry, I know. I always do too. And the boys may snub you when you first get home, just to let you know they're mad at you for leaving them. But they'll get over it soon enough and love you again.

Have a safe trip!!
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So, I think that subconsciously I posted this in order to get confirmation that my gut feeling of nervousness was right.

After reading the responses and talking to a few friends about it, I decided to install the kittens at a different friend's house. She works for the SPCA and her mom used to be a vet's assistant. She's a grad student who only works on weekends, and her mom doesn't work either, so there will be someone there at all times and I KNOW they will get fed at the same time every day, litter scooped EVERY DAY, water changed EVERY DAY, etc. They do have dogs, but they are not allowed upstairs (there are doors, baby gates, etc. blocking the stairs) and if no one is at home they are stored (lol) in large crates downstairs, so there is no chance they can get to the kittens.

The friend who was going to housesit for me is the girl's ex-boyfriend and she told me that last summer they asked him to stop in to check on their outdoor cat 3x in the 7 days they'd be gone for vacation, change her water and so on, and when they got home her water was disgusting and full of dirt and leaves even though he swore he'd changed it the day before. He's also been known to forget to charge his phone, fall asleep at friends' houses, etc. He was my first choice because he's my ONLY non-allergic friend (even my gf who works at the SPCA is allergic) but I just didn't feel right about it - thus the post - and now I'm much happier. Moving them wasn't ideal but I couldn't afford the petsitter idea and since they're only 12 weeks I'd rather someone stay with them overnight anyway. I only learned about the business trip a week ago (though I'd asked the original friend if he'd housesit before I even considered getting kittens or knew where they would come from).

So... I dropped them off a few hours ago and much like when I brought them home to my place from their mom's house, they did not require any hiding time - they just came out and starting sniffing and playing. My sweet, brave babies! I stayed for several hours and they fell asleep in my friend's lap, used the bathroom, etc., and seem really happy in their upstairs rooms.

I'm no longer worried and nervous - just missing my babies!

Thanks for the advice as always
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My gf just sent me this pic of them sleeping in her sheet-covered office chair:

post #6 of 7
Oh, my gosh - what a picture! Those babies are so beautiful. No wonder it's hard to take this trip, but at least you know your little ones are being well taken care of.
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Originally Posted by parsleysage View Post
My gf just sent me this pic of them sleeping in her sheet-covered office chair:

Oh noes, they look so distraught!!! They look like they are in great hands, and despite the picture no doubt they are missing you. The first time I left Holland for more than a day I got the "cold shoulder" BIG time from her. They tend to forget pretty easily though...
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