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post #31 of 51
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So far so good-both cats are inside and the litterbox is definitely getting more visits that it used to with the Cat Attract litter-it may be the "miracle" I had been hoping for. Both cats seem more playful with their new toys and more affectionate and I have been making a point to be more affectionate with them.

I'm a little paranoid and have been checking for pee with the blacklight a lot but I have not found any evidence of peeing since changing the litter and Kahlua also has not been aggressive since-perhaps the new toys are giving her a better outlet for her energy/instincts??

I'm praying things continue this way, I feel like I have done a 180 from being frusutrated to the point I was starting to consider things I never would have before, to feeling like I have "my cats" back after years of frustration.
post #32 of 51
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I'm praying things continue this way, I feel like I have done a 180 from being frusutrated to the point I was starting to consider things I never would have before, to feeling like I have "my cats" back after years of frustration.


So happy to hear that this is working. for continued success!
post #33 of 51
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So far so good-both cats are inside and the litterbox is definitely getting more visits that it used to with the Cat Attract litter-it may be the "miracle" I had been hoping for. Both cats seem more playful with their new toys and more affectionate and I have been making a point to be more affectionate with them.
Woo Hoo! So glad to hear about this. Thanks for the update.
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post #35 of 51
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I'm praying things continue this way, I feel like I have done a 180 from being frusutrated to the point I was starting to consider things I never would have before, to feeling like I have "my cats" back after years of frustration.
Excellent update. Just wonderful! I know you must be both pleased and relieved.

Remember, though, Onthethird - just like kids, a great deal of how cats behave is directly related to their environment and how they're treated. You have to keep doing what you're currently doing if you want them to continue to behave how you want them to. I would still recommend you purchase a cat tree for the primary living area(s) of your house if your cats don't have an elevated safe zone in these areas. Having a way to be part of the family while feeling completely secure (as they would surveying the room from seven feet up) is a great gift to them.

I'm so delighted at how well things are going and hope they continue to do nothing but improve!

AC
post #36 of 51
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Just another little update, things are still going well behavior-wise with Skipper and Kahlua. its very odd, now they seem to want to be around the kids, Skipper has even tried to lay in the bed with them a couple times at bedtime the past few days and he's been sleeping in their room sometimes too. Kahlua (gasp) even let my 3 year old pet her with no incident, she came up to him! (I watched very carefully)

However, for the bad news-Skipper has some sort of lump on his jawline I found tonight. I'll be calling the vet first thing in the morning. My first thought was dental abscess due to the location but I'm not sure as it is hard, he does not seem tender on it at all, eating fine, and no change in behavior. Its a pretty good size, I don't know if it just came up fast or I didn't notice it before-he's pretty fluffy and when I first noticed today at first I though his hair was just sticking out on one side of his face, it wasn't until I really felt for it that I was sure it was a lump-its about quarter sized in diameter. Like I said its not soft or painful to him so for all I know I've been petting right over it for who knows how long.

I'll let you know what the vet says...
post #37 of 51
I hope whatever it is, it's an easy fix! I'll be watching for an update.

Best regards.

AC
post #38 of 51
Oh, dear. I hope it is nothing serious.

Pain, particularly mouth pain, can instigate inappropriate soiling. So maybe that's been an issue for some time. That cats are so stoic about pain is a big problem.

Please keep us updated on how Skipper is doing. Poor guy.
post #39 of 51
I am so glad you found this lump on Skippers jaw. This really could be the culprit in the innappropriate peeing. There are some other members whose cats were having litterbox issues all due to mouth/teeth pain. I really hope it is nothing serious. Sometimes kitties in pain will try to tell us by not using the litterbox and peeing elsewhere. Will be thinking of you tomorrow and also so glad things are going better at home for you
post #40 of 51
I wonder if that lump might have something to do with his litter box "accidents"? Glad you found it. Will be waiting to hear the update and keeping fingers crossed for good luck.
post #41 of 51
SO glad to hear things are going well. I scanned the posts and while I saw a lot of people suggested creating spaces up high for the cats they usually suggested doing it with cat trees which can be expensive and hard to move. You could also make some inexpensive shelves and hang them on the walls. It sounds like you'll want to put some low since Skipper has limited mobility. From there, hang a few progressively higher. This is a cheap way to give them a territory out of the reach of little hands and it will be easy to move later!
post #42 of 51
Hello out there Any news about Skipper and the jaw lump? Just thinking of you and him and sending more that things are still going well
post #43 of 51
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Sorry for the delay in replying, things have been very hectic. Skipper's lump on his jaw did turn out to be an abscess...it ruptured about four days after I took him to the vet. It has since healed up and he seems to be doing well. We have had only one incident of peeing outside the litterbox since starting the Cat Attract litter and I realized that was because my dog inadvertently blocked Skipper's path to the litterbox one evening by laying across a hallway.

No more biting lately from Kahlua either, I'm thinking the cat toys may be helping her get out some of that energy. Both cats actually seem to be wanting to be around the boys now-which is unexpected. Skipper in particular is sleeping in their room at night or even on their beds with them at times. They still don't like when the boys get rowdy but they boys have been helping me with brushing the animals and giving them treats so maybe thats why?

Anyways, thanks again for all the helpful suggestions, I really feel like the Cat Attract litter was the solution I had been searching for (incidentally my vet had never even heard of it) Once I got that and the inappropriate peeing/pooping stopped/slowed down I was able to ease the frustration and concentrate more on quality of life improvement for the cats which helped even more.

Thank you!
post #44 of 51
Yes! That's great news, Onthethird! Thanks so much for the update.

AC
post #45 of 51
Excellent news , I am so happy for you!
post #46 of 51
I am so, so glad everything turned around for you and your babies!!

But I wanted to let you know that there is an animal sanctuary sort of near you. I saw you posted you were in NC, and the sanctuary is in Northern FL.

But I hope it will never have to come to that.
post #47 of 51
I am so, so glad to see this story has a happy ending!!
post #48 of 51
yeah!!!!!! Awesome news!!!!!
post #49 of 51
Litter troubles:
I had issues before with my cat and here's what i did:
-Bought 2 new litter boxes (making the grand total to be 3)
-Put them in different kinds of locations (Bathroom, dinning room, Bedroom.)
-Bought different kinds (High back, Small low side, hooded)
-Tried different litters
-Cleaned as frequently as humanly possible
-Closed any doors that there weren't litter boxes in
-Cleaned any messes with cat odor reducing products (to prevent them from smelling old urine)
-Washed every sheet, pillow, towel, clothing article (he likes to poop and pee in those)

Worked for me. I had enough, and went crazy and spent 200 bucks at the pet store to fix this issue once and for all. And i did.

Aggressive cat:
My friends have an aggressive cat (ex-stray/feral cat), they have her in a huge dog crate with food, water, and a hooded litter box. She likes it in there and likes to be left alone. Your female cats problem might be privacy? With all the kids and commotion going on perhaps. Now, normally I don't recommend putting a cat in a cage constantly, but that's where it would be at a shelter and if she likes it, then it's better than euthanasia. And it will keep everyone safe. Or let her go outside, if she's so mean she can fend for herself (Only if she has all of her claws)

Like I said, I would never recommend this, but you're at your boiling point and I know you don't want to put her to sleep. It's worth a shot, right?
post #50 of 51
Yeah! Thank you for the update! And SO very glad that you've found a solution that worked for you and your family. All the best!
post #51 of 51
I am really late replying on this but I wanted to see how things were shaping up over at your place I am elated to hear your latest update. Such good news!
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