Did I Do the Right Thing?

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Two of the my strays had babies. Last night we had a bad storm. I noticed that the kittens were out from under the porch where they normally stay, so I went outside to put them back under the porch so they would be safe from the storm. I started hearing them mewing, so I went to check on them. Some of them were out from under the porch in the rain & hail, so I went out there to bring them in to safety and dry them off. I was only able to rescue five of them: the others were too far under the porch for me to be able to get. After I got the babies dried off and settled in, I went back to check to see if any more of them had come out. The momma cats were starting to haul some of the babies off into the neighbors' yard and put them under a steel sink, which really didn't offer much protection. One of the momma cats dropped 2 of the babies, and just left them there in the pouring rain. I was freaking out cuz I couldn't get to them, as there's a fence between the neighbors' yard and ours. I spent most of the night worrying and bawling my eyes out like the wuss that I am cuz I couldn't get to them.
I kept the other babies that I was able to get to in the house all night. This morning I put them back out with the momma cats. One of the momma cats started hauling the babies over the fence and back into the neighbors' yard after I put them back out. While I'm sitting there trying to figure out what to do to get them back and put them back under the porch (I really don't want them in the neighbors' yard as it's not safe over there: dogs get into that yard and could kill those babies), Randall tells me that he's gonna go over there and hand them back to me over the fence so I could put them back under the porch. Okay, so like WHY didn't you tell me that you could get over there LAST NIGHT!!
I didn't know that, or I would have done it myself!!
Sometimes he really ticks me off!
Anyway, we got all the babies back into our yard, and they're all okay - thank the Lord!
But I'm worried that they'll squeeze back through the fence, and get back into the neighbors' yard again, and as I said, it's not safe over there. I got the idea that we could put some chicken wire on that fence, so at least the babies can't squeeze through there anymore. But I'm worried that the momma cats will continue to haul the babies back over there.


I can't understand just why the momma cats didn't haul the babies to safety back under the porch when the storm hit, instead of just leaving them there screaming their poor little heads off like they did. It just about killed me to witness that.
I'm amazed that the hail didn't kill any of them, or that they didn't drown. I probably was nuts myself to be out there in the hail trying to rescue them all - especially with my back being out and barely being able to move right now - but I just couldn't stand to see them out in that horrible weather.

I'm wondering if maybe I should have let the momma cats try tending to the babies themselves.
It seems that the one momma cat is worried about me being around the babies: I think that's why she hauled them over the fence after I put them back outside. She seems kind of nervous when I'm out there feeding them, and will hiss at me sometimes. I'm hoping that she'll now realize that I won't hurt the babies, after seeing that they were all alright after I had them in the house last night, and she'll relax more now and keep them under the porch/house where it's safe.
Did I do the right thing by rescuing the babies that I was able to get to, or I should I just let nature take its course and let the momma cats tend to their babies? I don't know if I did the "right" thing or not..
 

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Don't beat yourself up. You did what you believed was in their best interest at the time. I hope they all will be fine.
 

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Aw Tiff, you did the right thing
and all will be just fine. Under those circumstances, I probably would have intervened as well. I don't think I could have left them out in that terrible hail storm as well. Now the kits are back out with the mom's. I would just let them be and if mom cat takes them away again, there is not much you can do about it. I know this is very hard for you. But I believe they will care for the kittens. You have a very huge, kind soul and I can't help but worry too about all of the outside feral cats. It makes it harder if they have their kittens right under your porch because then you, of course, will feel partly responsible in seeing that they are safe. You are doing what you can and the best you can and that is better than doing nothing
 
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We're fixin' to get some more bad weather by the look of things, so I guess I know what I'll be doing before too long.


I had Randall put the chicken wire up, but we didn't have nearly as much as I thought we did, so now the little stinkers are just moving down along the fence further and squeezing through where they find a space.


Maybe this doesn't seem right, but I honestly don't care if the momma cats get ticked off at me again. I can't stand the thought of those poor babies out in that horrible weather again!
 
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I just went outside to bring the babies in after checking the radar on the weather channel website: it looks as if the storms may be moving off to the north, but I'd still rather be safe than sorry cuz it looks pretty threatening out there. Three of the babies were in the neighbors yard again, so I had Randall go over there and hand them to me over the fence. The babies are in the house with the foster kittens till the storm passes. I brought one of the momma cats in too to show her where her babies are so she wouldn't worry: I was gonna let her stay in there with the babies, but she didn't seem to want to be cooped up like that so I put her back outside. Thankfully, the other babies are under the house again with the other momma cat. I sure hope that they don't decide to come out from under the porch again and stay put this time!


 

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I would be bringing them in the house-in a few months you may not be able to touch them and end up with them reproducing. I also have experience bottle feeding/young babies so that part would not phase me. I am missing how old are they?

Have you called to see if they can be posted on any rescue/shelters petfinder page/you can be a foster home and take them till they find new homes? I would be looking at options now for when they are older(I am not sure what you have done/if it was posted)
 

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I would also have gone over to that neighbor's yard to collect up those three kittens. Those dogs would have killed them. And with you bringing them in you can handle them and they will become tame. Very sweet of you to take mom cat in to see where the babies are. MY MY you have a little kitten party in your house. Much thanks to you for doing what you are doing.
 

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You're a wonderful surrogate kittymom, and your instincts seem to be great.
Even the momcat could have been killed in a hailstorm -- you had to do what you could!
 
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Originally Posted by catsallaround

I would be bringing them in the house-in a few months you may not be able to touch them and end up with them reproducing. I also have experience bottle feeding/young babies so that part would not phase me. I am missing how old are they?

Have you called to see if they can be posted on any rescue/shelters petfinder page/you can be a foster home and take them till they find new homes? I would be looking at options now for when they are older(I am not sure what you have done/if it was posted)
I'd love nothing more than to be able to bring them all into the house, but it's just not possible - space wise, financially, and health wise. It's been a strain as it is taking care of the three kittens I've already been fostering, but I made an exception in their case, cuz they had no momma cat to care for them after those people dumped them off at the dollar store.

I don't think I'll have too many problems handling them so it's easier to find homes for them: most of the strays that show up here let me pick them up and handle them cuz I take the time to earn their trust. If I can't find homes for them, I'll do what I always do with them so they can't reproduce - TNR: finances permitting, of course. Right now I'm kinda in a bind financially since my roommate hasn't been working due to many health problems, and I myself am on disability now, which doesn't pay much at all. As far as the local shelters are concerned, the ones I contacted within a 50 mile radius all say the same thing: they're filled up and can't take any more. I've even contacted the local vets around here to see if they knew of anyone who did any fostering: that was a dead-end, too.
One of the shelters recommended sending an e-mail to a local website that sometimes helps out with abandoned pets - which I did - but I never got a response. I also posted ads several times on another local website in hopes of finding homes for the strays, but never get any responses. I intend on posting the kittens/stray cats on PetFinder too: hopefully that will produce some results.


I really wish I could rescue them all: it breaks my heart not being able to.
But it's just not possible: I've already rescued eleven cats who now reside in the home, and I'm at my limit. If there was ANY way I could rescue them all, I'd do it in a heartbeat.
 

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My heart
goes out to you in this dilemma trying to find a place to take the kittens. Wish I knew what else to recommend other than the petfinder ads, which you are doing. I guess trying to post a flyer in local vets offices. My vet does this and they have excellent results and they tell me that all of the cats/kittens always get adopted that way. You could even email a copy of the flyer to all of the vets in your area
. I know you have the biggest heart and are doing more than most people ever would. Think of you often and sending many vibes that something comes up soon for those kittens.
:hear t3:
 

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If you have any community message boards in places like grocery stores, PetSmart, etc you could post a flyer there. I see them all the time and there are always little tags ripped off of them so there has been some interest.
 

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Oh-I took strays to mean more standoffish.

We need to hae limits and no need to feel bad-Id have well over 100 cats had I took everyone in!!!

Look into the disability-I know in nj you can get a cat donebfor 20 or 30 when you have disability. Not sure where you are but there are SO many programs that are little heard of(been helping a few off craigslist find lower cost options then the 85 a pop place).
 
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Originally Posted by Feralvr

My heart
goes out to you in this dilemma trying to find a place to take the kittens. Wish I knew what else to recommend other than the petfinder ads, which you are doing. I guess trying to post a flyer in local vets offices. My vet does this and they have excellent results and they tell me that all of the cats/kittens always get adopted that way. You could even email a copy of the flyer to all of the vets in your area
. I know you have the biggest heart and are doing more than most people ever would. Think of you often and sending many vibes that something comes up soon for those kittens.
:hear t3:
Originally Posted by nerdrock

If you have any community message boards in places like grocery stores, PetSmart, etc you could post a flyer there. I see them all the time and there are always little tags ripped off of them so there has been some interest.
Thanks for the ideas, y'all.
I'll make up some flyers and give it a shot. It sure can't hurt to try.

If anyone else has any suggestions, I'm all ears!
 

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Originally Posted by Feralvr

trying to post a flyer in local vets offices. My vet does this and they have excellent results and they tell me that all of the cats/kittens always get adopted that way.
This is how Spencer and Katie came to live with me. Only someone had dropped off a Mom with 2 kittens instead of posting flyers. The good news is that they all found homes!! The 2 kittens with me and the Mom a few weeks later.
 
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