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So I just had 2 cats that I'm adopting dropped off at my place not even an hour ago. They came out, looked around and immediately went under the bed. So now, I wait. I've been told they won't be under there long, apparently it won't take them more then a day to cuddle up to me says their previous owner. I felt so bad because the cats were hiding when he left he looked ready to cry.

These are my first cats ever.

Advice? I will post pictures as soon as I can take them without scary the crap out of them. Their names are Cory & Elly btw, they are brother and sister.

well i just got a 9 week old kitten,and although it's not my first to have my dad and i had two cats and i had cats before it's the first cats i'v had that i actually own. Just talk quietly and just be very soothing,put out some food and water and just let them know you're not gonna hurt them. Maybe get down to there level so there not so scared,don't worry you'll do great.

They came out pretty quickly and it's so cute watching them explore.

Congratulations on your 2 new cats!!

Just going to ask some questions so we can get you what you need for them:

1. Do you have any other animals or children in the house?

2. Do you already have litter boxes out for them that they have seen?

3. Have they seen where their water and food is? (Might put some just outside the bed in case it takes them a bit longer to come out, and a litter box there, too - I had a cat that took 2 months, but now sleeps with me and purrs all the time)

4. Are these cats spayed/neutered? If not, this needs to be done, STAT.

5. Sounds like they've been with this guy a long time and were attached to him, they will definitely need the time for you to earn their trust, it's normal. Just always speak in low, loving tones, let them know how glad you are that they are here and how you will always take care of them. With my Marilia, I would be sure to lay down and stick my head just so they could see it at the end of the bed and talk to them a few times a day to let them know my face-with-voice better.

I never talked loud, never punished. The ONLY thing I've ever done (and not even at first with her) is, if they are on places where they could get hurt, I would use the Cesar Milan "Tschhhhh!!!" thing - all my cats are trained to that. There is never a reason to punish by hand, article or yelling.

6. Did the guy give you their medical records? If not, I'd try hard to get those to make sure they are up to date on shots. If not, I'd get them a vet visit to get them updated on everything and start fresh.

Sorry for all the questions, just wanting to help. I'm pretty good with frightened cats since my girl, even though she sleeps right next to me and purrs, still jumps at noises and has PTSD (like her mommy), needs special care.

I'm staying connected to this thread, so I'll check back, and I'm sure others will chime in as well.

WELCOME TO THE CAT SITE! :-D

Warmly,

Julie O'

Originally Posted by bee17dm

So I just had 2 cats that I'm adopting dropped off at my place not even an hour ago. They came out, looked around and immediately went under the bed. So now, I wait. I've been told they won't be under there long, apparently it won't take them more then a day to cuddle up to me says their previous owner. I felt so bad because the cats were hiding when he left he looked ready to cry.

These are my first cats ever.

Advice? I will post pictures as soon as I can take them without scary the crap out of them. Their names are Cory & Elly btw, they are brother and sister.

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Hi there. The cats will ignore you for as long as they ignore you! If they're eating before too long, you're golden. All time issues are relative to cats! Relax and they will. Bribery after a few hours never hurts, either.
I understand how tough it can be to adopt from a loving owner-at least he knows his cats are together and safe. His energy will probably influence the cats as much as it influences you right now. This too shall pass.
So, I'd say give the boys some space, but keep your eyes and ears open. Good luck.

1. Nope just the cats.

2. yes the guy who dropped them off with a litter box, scratching post, little house for them some toys and a TON of wet and dry food.

3. they ate food today and drank water, I was a little surprised when I popped the can for the wet food they both came running but they didn't eat most of it and I don't think she even ate any at all, maybe just nervous in a new place?

4. They are neutered and are completely up to date on shots.

5. yeah they've slowly been finding there way around the room, the boy cat cuddled with me this morning then spent the whole afternoon under the bed while the girl cat cuddled with me the guy who gave them to me said they are super friendly and love to cuddle and be affectionate.

6. see 4.

Thank you for welcoming me and my kitties!

Ah!

This is all great news!!!

I think they'll be ready to come completely out very soon (w/in days), so I'd go ahead and set up their feeding station(s), maybe put water in a couple extra places (Sorry, this is me and my 10 cats speaking), and the litterboxes, maybe 2 - one close to where they sleep so they can "sleep-paw" to it as some of mine do, and another for general ("Oh, there's one in this room and I just happen to have to go - how convenient" box.

If they looooove affection, they'll be out in no time!!

Please keep us updated!! :-D

Again, super congratulations and you'll be soooo happy and realize you are a cat person (which, mark my words, you will be; especially with those 2 cuddlers), your life will change forever for the better....... ahhhhhhh.

Me 'n da pudstah's at my place are so happy and joyous for you and the puddies! We can't wait to hear stories of funny things, questions if you need help with health or behavior or any big or little thing, and especially we can't wait to see picturrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrres!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We always be thinkin' of you and the fluffy ones and be waiting furrr your questions 'n stories... n pictures!!!!!!!!!!!!

Warmly,

Julie O' and da puddy-tats

Originally Posted by bee17dm

1. Nope just the cats.

2. yes the guy who dropped them off with a litter box, scratching post, little house for them some toys and a TON of wet and dry food.

3. they ate food today and drank water, I was a little surprised when I popped the can for the wet food they both came running but they didn't eat most of it and I don't think she even ate any at all, maybe just nervous in a new place?

4. They are neutered and are completely up to date on shots.

5. yeah they've slowly been finding there way around the room, the boy cat cuddled with me this morning then spent the whole afternoon under the bed while the girl cat cuddled with me the guy who gave them to me said they are super friendly and love to cuddle and be affectionate.

6. see 4.

Thank you for welcoming me and my kitties!

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Hi there

we're so happy to get the chance to welcome you and your two new kitties to TCS. I'm sure you'll enjoy your stay with us - we're one great big family and you'll find loads of friends here. If I can help at all while you're finding your way around TCS just click on my username and send me a Personal Message - I'll do what I can to answer your questions.

Patience and love are the key....it will take them time to adapt.