Saturday evening I took our daughter (just turned 13) to a slumber party of her friend. The family moved here about 7 months ago and we had never been to their house. The mom took us around to the back to the "cottage" where the girls would be staying overnight.
I peeked in through the door and asked if there was a smoke detector (the little building was something of a shack) and the answer was no - there's electricity but no heat.
Our daughter is an only child but is an extremely sociable creature. She looks forward to these nights with her girlfriends as the highlights of her life. My first impulse was to say she couldn't sleep over, of course, but after talking to my husband we decided to buy a smoke detector and give it to the family to put in the "cottage."
The girls at the party thought this was very weird, in fact they used "insane" and "odd" and "absurd" to describe what I did. My actions were the talk of the slumber party. I thought it was a good solution to the problem!
What do you think? Was it an over-the-top thing to do?
BTW, the mom put a space heater into the "cottage" at about 7:30 that night, then never checked on the girls again.
I peeked in through the door and asked if there was a smoke detector (the little building was something of a shack) and the answer was no - there's electricity but no heat.
Our daughter is an only child but is an extremely sociable creature. She looks forward to these nights with her girlfriends as the highlights of her life. My first impulse was to say she couldn't sleep over, of course, but after talking to my husband we decided to buy a smoke detector and give it to the family to put in the "cottage."
The girls at the party thought this was very weird, in fact they used "insane" and "odd" and "absurd" to describe what I did. My actions were the talk of the slumber party. I thought it was a good solution to the problem!
What do you think? Was it an over-the-top thing to do?
BTW, the mom put a space heater into the "cottage" at about 7:30 that night, then never checked on the girls again.