Why is it?

Why is it that I have dreams about friends or family's pets that have passed on, but not my own?

My sister and her family had 2 dogs, Ashley and Denver. Ashley was a black beagle/lab and Denver was a Golden Retreiver/Lab. Ashley passed first and about a year later, Denver passed. A few days after that, I had a vivid dream of being in a meadow and seeing Denver running towards me. She runs right past me and up a small hill. At the top of that hill was Ashley. That is where the dream ended.

I have had dreams of other pets that weren't mine, but never one of mine. I mean, I know where they are, but why don't I get a visit from Meigan (our family dog), Oliver or Whisky? It really bothers me sometimes....

I never dream about my guys either. Like you, I wish I would. I can't explain it.

I loved all my cats and other animals as much as I love my own life....yet, nothing.

I just don't understand.

That is a tough one. I have never dreamed about anyone else's pets, just mine. I have seen Max, my soulmate kitty one time, and our cat Speedboat one time. I wish I could again, but it is something we have no control over.
Just have patience, maybe you will.