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Don't littermates usually get along?

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We recently adopted 2 kittens (4 months old), but they were brought home separately. On Saturday we went to someone's house to pick up both, but one of the kittens was hiding. The people have a cat house that connects to their house and the kittens were living with 15 other cats. So we brought the first one home, and the people just brought the other one over. We thought this would be great, since the first one mewed under the bed the entire first day and night, before warming up enough to want to come out. The other one hasn't mewed much at all, but the first one doesn't seem super excited that her sister is here. She's growled a little when the other one has been in the kitchen eating (she didn't growl much, just a little).

The other kitten has hardly been out, but at least has eaten and used the little box (which is more than her sister has done). So, I'm hoping they'll warm up to each other. I thought they'd be so happy to have each other. Is this a common reaction for them to have? They were only apart for a couple days.

Also, our first kitten is still pretty skittish. She'll be fine with us and happy and them one of us stands up and she gets all nervous and jumpy. And she still hisses at us, even if she was just happily sitting next to us. Is there something I should do to help any transitions better for both kittens into the house? Thanks for any help!
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I think they are both still adjusting to the change and are a bit jumpy. I'd give them a few more days.
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We rescued our first kitten. We decided he needed a friend, so 10 days later we rescued one of his siblings. We thought they'd be so happy! Instead, Lazlo saw a moving target, and went for it. They were a hissing rolling ball of flying fur. They settled down after a couple of days and ended up becoming friends.

But Yayi's right. Right now, they're just scared of being in a new environment. Hopefully you've got them enclosed in a room, not having full run of the house? They need a smaller space to make their own first - a "safe" room. Cats are very territorial and they've just had theirs switched, and it's scary. It smells, looks, and sounds different, and they don't really "get" what's going on.

I'm sure they'll be great friends... but they need to feel comfortable in their new home first.

Here's an article you might find helpful:

http://www.thecatsite.com/Care/18/Br...a-New-Cat.html
post #4 of 5
Any time they are apart, they won't recognize each other. The first kitten now smells different to his sister and vice versa. You can neutralize the smell by using pure vanilla extract and putting small dabs on each kitten several times a day. Under their chin and at the base of their tail. They will then smell the same. You can do the same using a small amount of orgainic catnip by crushing up the buds in your hands and rubbing the flake over your kitties BUT some forms of catnip will cause aggression so you need to be careful using this method.

Feliway won't work on these kittens- they aren't old enough to be affected by the pheremones.

Because they are from the same litter (if they are) isn't a given they are going to get along. It is a period of adjustment for them and it is a big adjustment. New house, new sounds, new people a pulse of a home to get used to it takes time.
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I don't think it matters if cats are littermates or not, just that they have been together continuously since being kittens.

Once separated, in some cases they become strangers again, at least for a little while.

My two were are littermates and even when frightened were best buds glued at the hip... but under the couch, or slinking together into new rooms. If I were to bring over their brother Teddy though now, they would probably hiss at him, but after proper intro time be cool again.
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