Okay I have two friends who I used to spend alot of time with, but I was always the one going to see them, one of them has been out to my house three times in the 4-5 years that I have known her and the other has been here once but she was driving me home and she has never gotten out of her car she refused to. I was also the one who always initiated contact and although I was always welcome in the homes, the last time I stopped at my friend Jennifer's place she seemed almost upset that I had and just said she was sleeping, and the other friend she has asked several times for me to come over but I am driving dad's car so it is hard for me to do so. I feel like the friendships with these two people may be a bit onesided and I am wondering if you would feel the same way?
Also they both seem to be leary of meeting my family but I have met almost all of their families, well one of them is dating the other one's son and they are all kind of bunched together. When I first became friends with Jennifer we seemed to hang out more but now granted she works, has school, and two kids but she seems reluctant to even return my texts and the other one Mary doesn't have a phone anymore as far as I know so I cannot call her and the last few times I did she seemed to rush me off of the phone. Maybe I am just overreacting?
Also they both seem to be leary of meeting my family but I have met almost all of their families, well one of them is dating the other one's son and they are all kind of bunched together. When I first became friends with Jennifer we seemed to hang out more but now granted she works, has school, and two kids but she seems reluctant to even return my texts and the other one Mary doesn't have a phone anymore as far as I know so I cannot call her and the last few times I did she seemed to rush me off of the phone. Maybe I am just overreacting?