I will try to make this as brief as possible, but its not simple. (I know it never is!) Back in August a stray female with 2 kittens about 5 months old started hanging around our house, we started feeding them hard food. We have a lot of grasses and huge hydrangeas they could sleep under. At the time we were dealing with a 19 year old maine coon with kidney disease and a 20 year old cat with a cancerous liver tumor. Needless to say within 5 months we had to put both of them to sleep(that's another story). Unfortunately by the time we trapped the mother her kittens had disappeared. I am praying someone took them in but I know the chances are not good. There are a lot of mean people out there!
So we trapped her the beginning of December, I started reading a lot on how to socialize her on this site. (very good information by the way). It had gotten very cold and I couldn't stand seeing her outside anymore. I know I did it all backwards, but we trapped her Saturday evening after my vet was closed. She looked to be in very good health, she is in a spare bedroom so I wasn't too concerned about getting her to a vet right away. (We do have one more male cat in the house). It took me 6 weeks until she left me touch her. I was so thrilled, it was on my birthday! I actually was reading to her from this site and from the cruise critic site.
She has gotten to be such a sweet girl. The 1 1/2 hours I am back with her she wants attention all the time and she loves to be combed! We have named her Daisy, and the name really matches her!
Anyway the vet gave me tips on getting her used to the cat carrier, her appointment is tomorrow night. The only thing is I don't know how she is going to react once I get her there, I have a feeling she is going to freak out! I have never dealt with a cat like this before. I told them on the phone that she was a stray and I didn't know how she was going to react to strangers. They said ok. So we will see.
Anyway my problem is introducing her to our other cat, he is a big brut and the boss of the house. I read the article about placing blankets for each other to smell and feeding them on opposite sides of the door, I will start to do that as soon as she gets a clean bill of health. So once I do that, what else do we need to do? Should I let her go free thru the whole house? When we are not home or sleeping should I put her back in her bedroom so they don't fight or just let them work it out. I am really concerned because he always picked on my other females and I don't know how he is going to react. Thanks for any help you can give me.
So we trapped her the beginning of December, I started reading a lot on how to socialize her on this site. (very good information by the way). It had gotten very cold and I couldn't stand seeing her outside anymore. I know I did it all backwards, but we trapped her Saturday evening after my vet was closed. She looked to be in very good health, she is in a spare bedroom so I wasn't too concerned about getting her to a vet right away. (We do have one more male cat in the house). It took me 6 weeks until she left me touch her. I was so thrilled, it was on my birthday! I actually was reading to her from this site and from the cruise critic site.
She has gotten to be such a sweet girl. The 1 1/2 hours I am back with her she wants attention all the time and she loves to be combed! We have named her Daisy, and the name really matches her!
Anyway the vet gave me tips on getting her used to the cat carrier, her appointment is tomorrow night. The only thing is I don't know how she is going to react once I get her there, I have a feeling she is going to freak out! I have never dealt with a cat like this before. I told them on the phone that she was a stray and I didn't know how she was going to react to strangers. They said ok. So we will see.
Anyway my problem is introducing her to our other cat, he is a big brut and the boss of the house. I read the article about placing blankets for each other to smell and feeding them on opposite sides of the door, I will start to do that as soon as she gets a clean bill of health. So once I do that, what else do we need to do? Should I let her go free thru the whole house? When we are not home or sleeping should I put her back in her bedroom so they don't fight or just let them work it out. I am really concerned because he always picked on my other females and I don't know how he is going to react. Thanks for any help you can give me.