My dad is 85 and is having some issues.
He is very independent, he likes to drive and go places. He is also very obstinate. Yesterday, I was called at work by the ER saying my dad had fallen at McDonald's and I needed to come to the ER right away. They found nothing wrong with him. His CAT scan was fine, blood pressure, blood sugar and urine tests were all fine. They sent him home.
I stayed home from work today to keep an eye on him and he told me he WAS leaving to get breakfast. That is his daily routine...he has all his old cronies that sit around drinking coffee and chatting. I got a call again that he fell.
He decided to tell me he has Parkinson's Disease. The police and BMV revoked his driving privileges but left it up to me to tell him.
How do I tell him he can no longer do the things he likes to do?
I try very hard to keep his mind sharp by sharing pictures and asking about his past experiences. I cannot be there all the time to watch over him.
He is very independent, he likes to drive and go places. He is also very obstinate. Yesterday, I was called at work by the ER saying my dad had fallen at McDonald's and I needed to come to the ER right away. They found nothing wrong with him. His CAT scan was fine, blood pressure, blood sugar and urine tests were all fine. They sent him home.
I stayed home from work today to keep an eye on him and he told me he WAS leaving to get breakfast. That is his daily routine...he has all his old cronies that sit around drinking coffee and chatting. I got a call again that he fell.
He decided to tell me he has Parkinson's Disease. The police and BMV revoked his driving privileges but left it up to me to tell him.
How do I tell him he can no longer do the things he likes to do?
I try very hard to keep his mind sharp by sharing pictures and asking about his past experiences. I cannot be there all the time to watch over him.