my boyfriend has become very good friends recently with a kid he tattoos. his name is steve and he has a kitten that is a month older than jericho, his name is milo.
well steve comes over quite a bit, and jericho is NOT a fan of him for some reason. hes never mean to steve but jericho is a very active and spunky kitten and loves to play and can be a little aggressive at times. he is also quite the sneak attacker and any limb hanging off the furniture is fair game to him (i still have not figured out how to get him to stop this).
as you can see from my pics, jericho is very long, tall, and fit.
milo on the other hand is very short, fat, and docile..so i understand why steve isnt as used to such an active kitty.
BUT all steve does when he is over is talk about how milo would NEVVVER do that, milo would NEVVVER be mean, milo such a good cat, hes so chill and cool, hes soooo nice and sweet and so well behaved and jericho is just a pest that wont leave anyone alone.
now this really annoys me. jericho is my baby boy. and yes he is much more active than most cats im around but thats just how he is. our other friend chris who is VERY anti social and has a hard time being around people but works at the zoo and is a herpatologist and loves animals met jericho and said htat he acts more like a real lion than a normal house cat. in the way he communicates and plays and stalks everything (kinda made me proud haha).
we usually just joke it off when steve says those things and we respond with things like "oh well sorry milo isnt as advanced as jericho" or "well it must suck to have a boring kitty" but it really really bothers me. ive come so close to kicking him out of our home because i feel that it is very rude! jericho doesnt hurt steve, he just wants to play alllll the time! we dont have a ton of company and its usually only steve or jb that comes over and jericho LOVES jb, they are best buds. i wonder if jericho can sense that steve isnt a huge fan of him so he just messes with him as much as possible..lol at least thats waht i like to think hes doing.
has anyone ever had an experience like this? how did you handle it without causing drama or a riff in the friendship? i just dont know what to say to steve to make him stop and its driving me crazy because im sick of hearing about how amazing milo and and how jericho is such a horrible cat (because i know he is sweet as pie..but everything is on his terms and we respect that). so..any help!?
well steve comes over quite a bit, and jericho is NOT a fan of him for some reason. hes never mean to steve but jericho is a very active and spunky kitten and loves to play and can be a little aggressive at times. he is also quite the sneak attacker and any limb hanging off the furniture is fair game to him (i still have not figured out how to get him to stop this).
as you can see from my pics, jericho is very long, tall, and fit.
milo on the other hand is very short, fat, and docile..so i understand why steve isnt as used to such an active kitty.
BUT all steve does when he is over is talk about how milo would NEVVVER do that, milo would NEVVVER be mean, milo such a good cat, hes so chill and cool, hes soooo nice and sweet and so well behaved and jericho is just a pest that wont leave anyone alone.
now this really annoys me. jericho is my baby boy. and yes he is much more active than most cats im around but thats just how he is. our other friend chris who is VERY anti social and has a hard time being around people but works at the zoo and is a herpatologist and loves animals met jericho and said htat he acts more like a real lion than a normal house cat. in the way he communicates and plays and stalks everything (kinda made me proud haha).
we usually just joke it off when steve says those things and we respond with things like "oh well sorry milo isnt as advanced as jericho" or "well it must suck to have a boring kitty" but it really really bothers me. ive come so close to kicking him out of our home because i feel that it is very rude! jericho doesnt hurt steve, he just wants to play alllll the time! we dont have a ton of company and its usually only steve or jb that comes over and jericho LOVES jb, they are best buds. i wonder if jericho can sense that steve isnt a huge fan of him so he just messes with him as much as possible..lol at least thats waht i like to think hes doing.
has anyone ever had an experience like this? how did you handle it without causing drama or a riff in the friendship? i just dont know what to say to steve to make him stop and its driving me crazy because im sick of hearing about how amazing milo and and how jericho is such a horrible cat (because i know he is sweet as pie..but everything is on his terms and we respect that). so..any help!?