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Kitten Suckling Obsession

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Hi everyone!

I have 3 kittens - 2 are around 5 months old and 1 is around 3. They are just wonderful little creatures and I am totally in love! Anyway, the youngest one, the boy, has become a bit obsessed with the need to suckle/nurse on any part of my skin he can find, especially the lips, chin, ears, but really anything will do. At first I figured it wasn't a big deal, I read kittens taken away from their mothers too soon do this and it's not a big deal, don't make them feel bad for it as it's natural and comforting. This kitten wasn't taken away from his mother but he was extremely ill before I got him and was unable to nurse for a while and bottle fed, so it may have led to this.

I've had him for about a month and the desire to suckle and knead whatever part he is suckling is getting to the point of a little kitten obsession. When he isn't playing, sleeping or eating all he wants to do is try and suckle on my hands or face, he won't even let me pet him without trying to nurse. I have read endless articles and posts online about this issue and I've tired all of the advice:

"replace a blanket or toy" -- he isn't interested if it isn't skin and runs right back to me.
"divert his attention" -- that's fine when we're playing but when it's time to go to sleep he doesn't want to fall asleep without suckling or even just resting, doesn't have to be just going to sleep. Simply put if he isn't moving he's going to try it.
"feed him" -- he does it when he's just eaten
"let him do it, it's harmless" -- it's getting to the point that I don't think it is, I don't want him to always need to do that and I'd rather have my cat on my lap and not going after my face.

He's a super happy super sweet little boy but this is just getting out of hand. Any ideas?!
post #2 of 5
Most of the advice you read involved redirecting his behavior to something that you consider appropriate. Some people here have had to try different suckling items on their cats/kittens until they found the one that worked for them. Sometimes its a towel, sometimes a stuffed animal (Snuggle Kitties sometimes work), sometimes an article of clothing that smells like you (a stinky t-shirt comes to mind). Keep changing out things to see if he'll redirect to one of them. If you sit down, keep that item nearby so you can stick it between you and your baby when he starts.

I've had kittens like your boy that were bound and determined to suckle on me no matter what I tried. My (OTB) Oscar liked the inside of my ears and nose. I resorted to sleeping with a sheet over my head to stop him from doing it. It took a couple weeks, but he finally gave up. He switched to suckling cloth (better) and finally grew out of it.

Some cats never grow out of suckling. My 9 year old Scarlett (orphaned at 3 weeks old) still suckles to this day, although she'll do it on clothing so I can slip in a blanket or towel between us when she starts.
post #3 of 5
That is common behavior in kittens who were seperated from their mothers too young. They never learn proper social restraint, and he was probably never weaned properly, which left some instinctual kneading and suckling for comfort and to get milk out. Some kittens grow out of it, and some continue to suckle and knead their whole lives.

It's not harmful at all, even if he does do it forever. It's not the same as humans where a person sucking on their thumb as an adult signals behavioral problems. It's closer to an adult still having their childhood stuffed toy or whatnot.
post #4 of 5
My boy also does this but he sticks mainly to my inner elbow. He pushes his face in really deep and drools all over me as he kneads me. I don't mind it because I know that is how he is finding comfort. He does it when he is really crazy happy, and just before having a nap. He only does it to me - which makes me feel pretty special. I just take it as a compliment that he loves me so much.

I can understand though - that it might be an issue for you. Usually re-directing works but it DOES take a lot of time and patience for your cat to change what he suckles on.

I agree with something that smells like you - really stink up a shirt and use that. When he tries to suckle you gently put the shirt under where he is trying to suckle.

Good luck (lol typing this woke Kis up and now he is drooling on me )
post #5 of 5
My Pria loves to suckle me...and she is coming up on a year old. I have however found that she doesn't do it nearly as often as she did when she first came to me. She has always kind of thought of me as her Mom though, and it has never bothered me at all. Maybe you're kitty will do so less often with age as well.
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