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post #61 of 83
1/14/11 at 7:23pm
Oh no I'm so sad to hear she chose to end her life I remember her posts, and I remember hearing about her dating and having wonderful neighbors after her divorce. She must have been going through so much, and desperately trying to find ways to cope, and looking for new friends. In my experience of breaking up, it's so easy to start looking for new friendships and relationships only to find out that they mean so little to you, and you can never be as close to anyone as you were with the person you lost. This just came to mind because I always got the sense from her posts that she was lonely, even though she didn't lack friends or people in her life. She was always very positive and happy sounding, but I think it's common for some people with depression to put on a happy face for everyone they communicate with.
She found peace now, but I'm so sorry that she wasn't able to find peace while she was still with us
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post #62 of 83
1/14/11 at 7:59pm
I am at a loss for words.
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post #63 of 83
1/14/11 at 8:00pm
I'm just speechless right now. I was shocked to hear she passed away, but I was thinking heart attack or stroke...not suicide. My heart is breaking for her now. She seemed so happy with her life, and like someone else said "so FULL of life" that this just shocks me. But I guess she had to put up a good front for everyone. It just hurts me to think she was in so much pain and we didn't even know.

My heart and prayers go out to her family at this time.
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post #64 of 83
1/14/11 at 8:23pm
I am so shocked and saddened to read this.

Rosemary was one of the very first to welcome me when I first joined TCS. She made a point of saying that she had spent time in Yonkers and around NYC, and was quick to give me a little "NY Pizza" gift icon. I never forgot that about her.

So sad that there was so much emotional pain that she chose to end her life. I hope her pets are okay.
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post #65 of 83
1/15/11 at 12:13am
It is sad that she made this choice.

One thing that I noticed was that after she left her husband she stopped talking about her son. It was like she left him behind in the divorce.

It's like he lost his mother twice. I hope that he is doing OK
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post #66 of 83
1/15/11 at 2:29am
Oh. My. Gosh! Now, I never knew Rosemary as much as most of you but I had seen her around TCS quite a lot, I just cannot believe that she committed suicide, my prayers and condolences to her family and her friends.

Rest in Peace Rosemary, you are finally at peace.
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post #67 of 83
1/15/11 at 2:52am
I'm still so shocked by it, I didn't realise how down she must of been, she seemed so upbeat talking about her dates
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post #68 of 83
1/15/11 at 2:56am
What a tragic loss. Rosemary was a wonderful lady. May she RIP.
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post #69 of 83
1/15/11 at 3:45pm
How unbelievably tragic. My thoughts and prayers are with her friends and family. May she rest in peace.
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post #70 of 83
1/15/11 at 4:03pm
This is such tragic news. I am at a loss for words.
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post #71 of 83
1/15/11 at 4:41pm
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This is such tragic news. I am at a loss for words.
This is shocking news to me I remember her and butzie also.I also remember her. Birds also.
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post #72 of 83
1/15/11 at 6:02pm
Her poor poor children. What terrible news. My heart is with her and her family.
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post #73 of 83
1/15/11 at 7:00pm
How terrible. I did not know Rosemary well, but knew of her from her posts (and Butzie). Her family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Whenever I hear of a suicide, I always think of what DH days about suicide: they don't want to actually die, but they want the pain to stop--and it's the only way to ensure that it does. I've know quite a few people who chose this way to make the pain stop, and it haunts me to this day.
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post #74 of 83
1/15/11 at 8:10pm
How terribly sad, my heart goes out to her family RIP Rosemary
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post #75 of 83
1/15/11 at 9:00pm
Oh, no. That's terrible. I am so sorry she was in such pain. May you finally be at peace now, Rosemary.

My deepest condolences to her family and friends.
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post #76 of 83
1/16/11 at 1:11am
Oh no! We have lost too many of our dear TCS members and so young.

RIP Rosemary. I always got a good giggle out of your dating stories!
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post #77 of 83
1/16/11 at 9:05am
I can't stop thinking about this. She was always so upbeat and happy in her posts. I hope that if anyone in Rosemary's family ever happens upon this thread, they'll know how much we cared for her, how much we enjoyed talking with her, and how much we'll miss her. My heart is breaking for her family.
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post #78 of 83
1/16/11 at 9:07am
RIP Rosemary.

Does anybody know what happened to Butzie and her birds. I hope they are in safe loving homes
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post #79 of 83
1/16/11 at 9:20am
Oh my gosh that is so sad. RIP Rosemary, and I hope Butzie found a good home.
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post #80 of 83
1/16/11 at 11:10am
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I can't stop thinking about this. She was always so upbeat and happy in her posts. I hope that if anyone in Rosemary's family ever happens upon this thread, they'll know how much we cared for her, how much we enjoyed talking with her, and how much we'll miss her. My heart is breaking for her family.
I can't stop thinking about this, either. I remember asking Rosemary once if she was a Dodgers fan, since one of her birds was named Sandy Koufax. The pic of her with Rickey Henderson reminded me just how big an A's fan she was. I always enjoyed her posts; I can't believe she's gone.
I, too, hope someone in her family knows how much Rosemary meant to us here. I keep asking myself if there was somethng we could have done; of course, I know there wasn't, but it bothers me so much.

I sincerely Rosemary has found the peace she was seeking.
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post #81 of 83
1/16/11 at 6:02pm
I was floored to see the first post in this thread, and even further shocked when I read it was suicide. She always seemed so happy and exciting with her dating life, upbeat, and overall a wonderful woman.

RIP Rosemary, I hope your pain is over and you're at peace

I hope someone can find out if Butzie & the birds are taken care of.
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post #82 of 83
1/17/11 at 6:44am
This is so tragic. Our condolances to her family...
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post #83 of 83
1/17/11 at 8:51pm
Rest in Peace Rosemary.

Our condolences to her entire family. I hope Butzie is doing well.
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