Ok, here's the deal....I have decided to adopt Shalee, my sd,,,,,her bio mom hasn't been around in years...well, I do know we have to get her permission for this, and I believe she is still living in this area somewhere.....How can I go about finding her social so I can find out where she is? we are going to hire a lawyer eventually, but I just figured it would be cheaper to find her ourselves first instead of paying a lawyer to do it...any suggestions? thanks!