Big Move

We rescued a three year old feral cat two years ago, and it broke our hearts because we couldn't find a home for him and his brother together. They were quite close. He definitely cried at first, and it was just heartbreaking. So you just have to steel yourself and fill yourself with resolve, that's number one.

Next is ... play a lot with him. Make sure there's a lot of stimulation. Put up bird feeders outside. We have feeders that stick to the windows with suction cups, and we don't discourage the squirrels, because they are total cat TV. Have comfy window seats.

Also, spray the new place with Feliway (though not near litter boxes). This will help reduce the stress. You may also want to use Bach's Rescue Remedy (flower essences) - a few drops in the water, and maybe dab some on kitty for a few weeks (behind ears, at base of tail, and under chin). This is not a product where more is better, use it very sparingly.

If he's used to going to the bathroom outside, I'd definitely have at least three boxes (at first) and keep them really clean. I'd also use Dr. Elsley's Cat Attract litter.

And to help with just the move, take your bedding and don't wash it. Have stuff going into the bedroom moved first, then release him in there and confine him to your bedroom for at least the first day, and put the not-washed bedding on the floor somewhere. Normal smells will be comforting, and you lower the risk of him escaping during the move if the door doesn't need to be opened and closed.

Even if you don't stick to the plan of not letting him out, he really needs to be inside for at least three weeks, or he may bolt, trying to get back to familiar territory.

all goes well!

Resist the urge to let your kitty outside when they cry at the door, and they will probably begin to stop begging to be let out. It is sad to see a kitty wanting to be let out, but you know that it is best for them not to, I had to go through that once Wessie was shot, but gradually the kitty will adjust to indoor life. I hope everything goes well on your move with your kitty and you.