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Originally Posted by 3CatsN1Dog 
In this kind of situation noone is goinng to be happy because both sides will feel their rights are being infringed upon.
I am a smoker and literally am surrounded by non smokers. When we all go somehwere together I don't smoke and if I do smoke outside in a public place I walk away (10 ft or more) to have my smoke and if anyone stands close to me I walk further away. I do try and be considerate of other people outside when I smoke. I don't throw my butts on the ground I put it out and place the butts in my pocket or purse till I find a trashcan to put them in. I don't smoke when I know ill be around my nephew or M and K. I never ever smoke in other peoples houses even other smokers and if I'm at someone elses house I don't even like to smoke on their property, ill walk off their property onto a road or somewhere away by myself so I'm not bothering anyone. If I'm somewhere and its a congested area like an amusement park I don't even take my cigarettes with me.
I think a problem is that people want to lump evrryone into one group. Non smokers will think that smokers are incosiderate or that we don't think about other peoples feelings etc. That's not entirely the case. In these days smokers are becoming the minority and are losing places more and more to smoke. I remember when a friend moved to Denver and told me that he wasn't even allowed to smoke inside his own house something about an indoor smoking ban within city limits.
I think everyone on both sides of the coin need to accept that they will never be truely happy with anything that comes out of bans or what isn't banned. I personally think that if more smoking bans are going to be put into effect then someone needs to come up with public perfume bans because K (and many other people I know) have severe allergies or asthma triggered by perfume. I don't really want to smell anyones smoke or perfume when I go out to eat or shopping. However I realize that it will never happen and I honestly doubt that a countrywide ban of public smoking will happen. There are already tons of designated smoking area put in place at tons of businesses. One that is ridiculous is at a restaurant where the smoking station is right at the front door........doesn't make sense does it.
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Terrific post.

When I smoked, I was like you, an apologetic smoker.
My state is a no smoking state anymore, in any public building including restaurants and bars. A few years ago another law was passed about how close to public doorways people could smoke. It took a long time for businesses to start enforcing that law, even the hospital didn't at first, but it's better now.
The grocery store I use regularly was one of the worst, not just customers but employees standing in the doorway smoking. I filled out a few complaint cards in the store, and finally went on line and complained at the corporate level. The employee smoking area has now been moved to further than 50 from the entrance.
One of the places I go to pick up my clients was allowing their employees to smoke right outside the door, even after the new 50 feet laws were passed. And this is a government funded building. I complained there too, and the smoking area was moved to a less than ideal spot. There is one employee there who continues to give me dirty looks over this, though I am sure I can't be the only person who was bothered by the smoke and complained.
Walmart, still, is the only place I now have to walk through a cloud of smoke to get into and out of, and I have complained several times, but to no avail. Perhaps it's time to try the corporate level with them too. They HAVE a smoking area but people still stand or sit on a bench right outside the doors and smoke.
I, too, cannot tolerate perfume, aftershave or cologne, granted I am super sensitive to ALL smells, but some people don't seem to have a clue about how much of that crap to use. I can't even stand in a line behind someone wearing perfume. ugh.