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I have a semi-feral boy named G that I've had since he was just 3-4 months old. He's now almost 2. He was completely feral when I got him but has made some progress since. Now he's very odd in his behavior and I just don't get him. For the most part he's very skittish and will not let me come near him. He always stays some 3-4 feet away from me and won't let me touch him. He looks terrified if I stretch out my hand to him. But there is an exception and that's when he's with one of the other cats, Eli. When he's with Eli he's almost a normal cat. He lets me pet him, he rubs up against my legs and he's even let me pick him up. If Eli is next to me he will even come up to me to be petted. When Eli is not nearby though he acts like he thinks I'm going to kill him.
Clearly he feels very safe around Eli. When he first came to me Eli was the one that took him under his wing and took care of him so I understand why he feels safe around him. I just find it odd that he can go from wanting me to pet him one minute to being terrified of me the next when Eli has walked away. You would think that he would know that I'm not going to hurt him since I've never been anything but nice to him but that's clearly not the case. I just don't get how his brain works.
I suspect that he's going to be semi-feral for the rest of his life. Sometimes it seems like he's making progress but then go goes back to being scared. Obviously he has the ability to be okay with humans though so I'm thinking that there has to be a way to expand on that. Has anyone else dealt with similar situations and has success? I would really appreciate any tips or ideas anyone has.
Clearly he feels very safe around Eli. When he first came to me Eli was the one that took him under his wing and took care of him so I understand why he feels safe around him. I just find it odd that he can go from wanting me to pet him one minute to being terrified of me the next when Eli has walked away. You would think that he would know that I'm not going to hurt him since I've never been anything but nice to him but that's clearly not the case. I just don't get how his brain works.
I suspect that he's going to be semi-feral for the rest of his life. Sometimes it seems like he's making progress but then go goes back to being scared. Obviously he has the ability to be okay with humans though so I'm thinking that there has to be a way to expand on that. Has anyone else dealt with similar situations and has success? I would really appreciate any tips or ideas anyone has.