Hello! We are in need of some help.
Back in August, our cat was in a serious frenzy due to a stray on the opposite side of our fenced-in patio. I tried to pick her up and put her inside when what I now know as redirected aggression occurred, and our cat put me in the hospital for two days. (I won't even begin on how many jokes I heard the following weeks about how pussy landed me in the ER).
We decided to keep the cat cause I know she was just freaked out and I shouldn't have tried to subdue her like she was a dog. Expensive lesson learned.
Sadly, since then, she now sees me as a threat, but only about 2% of the time. Otherwise she's a great cat: plays fetch, part Burmese, very playful and loving. But her unprovoked attacks every couple weeks are giving me Woody Allen levels of neurosis. And just last week, she began turning the hissing/spitting/scratching on my wife.
First set of questions- is rehabilitation possible? I read the stickies on aggressive behavior. First there's a suggestion on some products that are supposed to calm the cat by releasing a constant stream of kitty pheromones or something? Honestly that sounds like pure snake oil to me. Then the steps you take to change the cats behavior involve scruffing the cat and throwing him/her in the bathroom for five minutes to cool off? Sorry, but I'm not going near my cat again when she's in that mode without a freaking bear suit of armor on. And we don't have the money to take her to a feline behavioralist. Are there any other options?
I'm assuming the chances of rehabilitation are slim, so the second set of questions- what can we do with her? We don't want to put her down. Would a humane shelter work? Would they take a cat that's put someone in the hospital?
Sorry for the long post, but any help would be appreciated. Again, we love this cat, but I don't think we can put up with this anymore.
Back in August, our cat was in a serious frenzy due to a stray on the opposite side of our fenced-in patio. I tried to pick her up and put her inside when what I now know as redirected aggression occurred, and our cat put me in the hospital for two days. (I won't even begin on how many jokes I heard the following weeks about how pussy landed me in the ER).
We decided to keep the cat cause I know she was just freaked out and I shouldn't have tried to subdue her like she was a dog. Expensive lesson learned.
Sadly, since then, she now sees me as a threat, but only about 2% of the time. Otherwise she's a great cat: plays fetch, part Burmese, very playful and loving. But her unprovoked attacks every couple weeks are giving me Woody Allen levels of neurosis. And just last week, she began turning the hissing/spitting/scratching on my wife.
First set of questions- is rehabilitation possible? I read the stickies on aggressive behavior. First there's a suggestion on some products that are supposed to calm the cat by releasing a constant stream of kitty pheromones or something? Honestly that sounds like pure snake oil to me. Then the steps you take to change the cats behavior involve scruffing the cat and throwing him/her in the bathroom for five minutes to cool off? Sorry, but I'm not going near my cat again when she's in that mode without a freaking bear suit of armor on. And we don't have the money to take her to a feline behavioralist. Are there any other options?
I'm assuming the chances of rehabilitation are slim, so the second set of questions- what can we do with her? We don't want to put her down. Would a humane shelter work? Would they take a cat that's put someone in the hospital?
Sorry for the long post, but any help would be appreciated. Again, we love this cat, but I don't think we can put up with this anymore.










