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Bagheera... My year old problem kitten.

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So Bagheera is a rescue. He was approximately a week old when he and seven siblings were brought into my vet's clinic where I happened to be with my dogs Loki and Kenya for our annual boosters and rabies vaccines. He was the runt and virtually unresponsive, mostly bald, and in severe need of some food when I saw him and decided to be a "foster" until he was old enough and healthy enough to adopt out.

I brought him home and bottle fed him for 12 weeks until he finally weaned off onto macaroni and cheese of all things with a bottle for liquids, then onto A & D canned kitten food, then onto moistened kitten food, and finally onto kitten crunchies. Admittedly the mac and cheese isn't the best food for a kitten, but my vet said that if he'll eat it, let him. Needless to say myself, my husband, and our kids got attached and kitty ended up a part of the family. Our children are 16 and 9 FYI, and complete animal lovers. We watched this palm sized runt grow into a long legged, healthy, furry!, active kitten.

At about 3 months we started to notice that he tended to be more aggressive than "normal" cats. He bit, he scratched, he freaked out, and he tore anything he could find up including a briefcase, two sofas, table cloths, throw pillows, comforters, towels, etc. He was a four pawed wrecking machine and viscious. He'd attack while you were sleeping, in the shower, walking across the floor, eating, and on the couch. We invested in "soft claws" and tried those out, but as destructive as he was, they stayed on maybe an hour before he was back to bare claws and tearing something up or climbing the walls in our home just to spite us.

At 5 months, we noticed he started having fixations on certain toys. Our dogs prefer stuffed animals to rubber toys in the house, and they have several of the long squeeky doggy toys you get at petco.... Well the cat latched onto them and started carrying them around and attacking them. He has toys all over the house, baskets of toys, the kitty condos, and everything else but he prefers the dog toys. So we let him play with them and even bought him his own for Christmas last year that he to this day carries around with him. However, the fixation on the toys did NOT stop the attack cat behavior and my husband finally said after being attacked one night in his sleep "Have him declawed or he has to go." So despite our intense dislike for declawing, we had Gheera neutered and declawed.

Now fast forward 7 months.... He's still just as aggressive as ever, only he's fixated his aggression towards me. He just LOVES strangers and my husband, children, and friends that don't like cats. He rubs between legs, lets people pet him, purrs and rolls over for belly rubs... But me? I'm his personal whipping girl. In the last 24 hours he's bitten me in the face, attacked me in the shower, latched onto my pants with his teeth and ridden across the floor, and jumped out of a decorative ficus to attempt to tear my eyes out with his teeth and he STILL climbs walls. The lack of claws hasn't fazed him in the least. He still tries to sharpen his claws, climbs walls, sneaks into baths and showers, and he still thinks he can do some serious damage with his front paws when he attacks. He's viscious.... yet not at other points. As I write this he's cuddled into my side on the sofa on his back allowing me to sit beside him while he sleeps and he sleeps with my husband and I. He's a cuddler when he thinks your aren't looking. Haha! He also loves baths and showers, and has been caught playing in his water bowl and moving his dishes across the room to draw attention to the fact his food bowl is empty. He's convinced it should always be full.

We've tried kitty pheromones in collar, spray, and plug-in variety, kitty valium, and kitty prozac... and none of it really helped much. The valium even made it worse for a while and has left us with a now skittish attack cat. We've never hit him, never tried spraying water at him, and overall we're a quiet and mostly calm family... We've also had him thoroughly vet checked and x-rayed to rule out a pain related behavior problem.

Any ideas what could be causing this hostility? He is a member of the family... We love him, but I could completely do without being attacked while trying to shave my legs in the shower. Any ideas would be appreciated!
post #2 of 4
Hi and welcome to TCS. Hopefully someone here can give you some advice you can relate to.
You mentioned he was bottle fed for 12 weeks? As you already know, this is way to long. You are not only his angel, life saver, but his MOM. Every developmental stage is guided by you.
How old is he now? He was how old when you had him declawed and neutered?
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First off, welcome to TCS. Unfortunately, I wish your first post was a happy one, but this is a wonderful site with many experienced and caring cat owners and advocates. As you may know, TCS is anti-declaw. But, I'm not going to go into that in this thread aside from making one point. I think what's most important it that you have come here looking for support and advice so that you, your family, and Bagheera can co-exist in a happy, stress-free environment.

The first thing that jumps out to me is that you mention having Bagheera from the time he was just a kit -- only a week or so old. And, you also mention that you and your family decided to foster him alone. In some instances where a kitten is bottle-fed and raised alone or has been taken from his or her mother too soon, there can be issues with aggression. In most cases, this is because the kitten never learned how to appropriately interact with others. This is something that he would normally have learned from his mother and from his siblings, but, being that he was raised by a human rather than another cat, his cues are off and he doesn't quite understand how to behave -- be it in play or otherwise. Let me stress that this is not your fault. You saved Bagheera's life and should be so proud of yourself for doing so. No human being can take the place of a feline mother or feline litter-mates. I am not terribly experienced with bottle-babies, but I do know that others here are and will likely chime in to offer suggestions as to how to try to help Bagheera re-learn boundaries. But, know that, in the majority of cases, there are remedies to behavioral issues. I commend you for sticking it out with your kitty despite the problems you're having. I just want you to know that there is hope...

As I stated above, there was one point I wanted to make regarding the fact that Bagheera was declawed. Many, many cats who are declawed go on to become quick to bite. A cat's claws are an important part of its make-up. They use their claws, among other things, to scratch, to climb, and to defend themselves. Now, without claws, Bagheera has lost a vital part of himself. And, in many instances, that creates an issue with biting. The cat no longer can defend himself or herself from real or imagined dangers and now must compensate the only way they know how -- by using their teeth. So, the fact that he has become mouthy, while certainly an issue, is understandable based on the fact that he has been declawed. Again, I am not going to bash you for making the decision to declaw. However, I just wanted to shed some light as to why he may be displaying a lot of biting behavior.

You've mentioned that Bagheera has been medicated in the past in an effort to control his behavior. I am not against medication when used properly. However, I think the direction you need to look in is more behavioral than medical. If everything checks out medically for Bagheera (and it sounds as though it has), it is time to begin looking at his behavior with a vet or animal behaviorist so that you and your family can help Bagheera be a better pet. Not only will it help your family, but it will help him as well since his behavior makes a case for the fact that he has some internal issues going on. I wish I were able to provide more insight or experience, but, really, in a situation such as the one you've presented, my suggestion would be to schedule a consultation with your vet to discuss what can be done on a behavioral level for Bagheera. If your vet is uncomfortable discussing behavior outside of treating it from a medical standpoint, ask for a referral to another veterinarian or behaviorist. If you're still struggling, contact animal shelters, rescue organizations, and the like. Sometimes there is nothing that can be done, but, in my opinion, there is almost always hope. Kudos to you for holding on to that.

I do hope other members will chime in with their opinions, advice, suggestions, and experience. But, even if they don't, please know that you're not alone and that there is help available. I think Bagheera definitely has some issues dating back to having been separated from his mother and litter, but I do think that there are steps you can take to try to amend his behavior. Good luck and please keep us updated. I know we are all pulling for you, your family, and Bagheera. Welcome again to TCS.
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Thanks to those who have replied back and thanks for the welcome!

Gheera is now 15 months old. He was 5 months old when we declawed and neutered him and as mentioned before the four pawed wrecking machine. Our vet told us that neutering early would prevent spraying and possibly calm him down a big. Boy was he wrong! We as a family are totally against declawing. It's cruel and more often than not can cause kitty more problems than it solves. We'd never had another cat de-clawed, soft paws and trimming nails were always a perfect solution for us until baby disaster as we call him often.

He's been a biter since about three months of age as well as using his claws. He chases you across the floor and climbs furniture to attack. He still has his back claws and he uses them and his front paws and teeth in an attack. He will also catch you in bed and jump up and latch onto whatever flesh is available, release and run off. It's a quick "Here I am!" and he's off to wreck something else. Lol We often say that if it hasn't been clawed, bitten, or rubbed on by Bagheera it doesn't exist in our house. He has the run of the place, and he surely knows it. He doesn't climb on the counters, or the kitchen table, but he does climb night stands and the coffee table... Mostly after straws which are another of his "toys". His lack of front claws seemingly hasn't bothered him. He still does everything he did before. He's just slightly less disasterous.

I truly agree that raising him by himself probably created most of our problems. We had another cat when we brought him home, but sadly Magoo passed away at age 17 before Gheera was really old enough to play and be taught. Magoo wasn't declawed and he himself was a bottle baby too... But not an only litter mate. There were three others I bottle fed along with him. Magoo was a big baby.

I also agree bottle feeding him for twelve weeks was too long, he simply wouldn't wean. He refused to take any form of food aside from the bottle. We tried repeatedly, he was just a bit stubborn. It wasn't until we had our nephews over and one of them dropped mac and cheese on the floor that Gheera showed any interest at all in food. After that he quickly developed a taste for anything resembling food. Lol he's 15 months now and a big beautiful completely obnoxious food hound.
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