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Originally Posted by Carolina
 I personally don't believe in big weddings... If that is what makes you happy, sure... The following is MY OPINION ONLY, OK???
 To me, it is just a huge waste of money, huge stress for the bride, groom and family, and the only ones who have fun are the people invited, who don't spend a penny. You spend thousands, and it all goes down the drain or the toilette - literally... While all that money could be spend to start a life... in a marriage... To me that day is a very special day, and that money can be used on soooooo many things when starting a life together... Housing, moving, furniture, maybe a baby, or who knows, traveling? I think that a marriage, a life together starts on that day, and that is the celebration... Sometimes people get so wrapped up on the wedding ceremony that forget about what that date is really about.... it is the beginning of something... it is about what comes next... With that stated...... A small ceremony, can be very very special... There are chapels where you can do that... You just order your license first (at the chapel) and have your ceremony, with your family and your close friends... It doesn't look like court, it doesn't feel like court... It is private, you have your own service... Then you can all go to dinner somewhere? Or you can even do it at home... You still make this day a very very special day, filled with love and dreams... and the beginning of a wonderful thing together...  |
