Cant any holiday ever be simple?!
A few weeks ago, hubby, me, and the in-laws decided we'd have Thanksgiving in our house, because I have a bigger kitchen and dining room available for the 5 of us. His mom's counter space equals the size of the island in mine!
We got that out of the way, I was going to cook the turkey because I did at Christmas also and it came out great. Now that I won a turkey, I have my "winnings rights" to cook it anyway
The other day, the neighbor invited us over for Thanksgiving. She called and asked who we were having over, and we invited them here since we'd already planned on people coming over. Yesterday, I saw her talking to hubby, FIL and BIL while they cleared logs out front (the rest of the trees from our land clearing back in 07!) I figured hubby was telling her we were having it here, because I have the turkey already, and part of the side items.
Today, I went and got the brown and serve rolls, green beans, and corn to go with the turkey and potatoes I already have. Planned on getting my ingredients tomorrow for my surprise spiced rum cake I'm making. Hubby asked me what we were going to do about going to the neighbor's house. I told him I thought we already went over that Saturday ... apparently he told her what I said, and she put pressure on him Sunday still to come over because they're "having a ton of people and it'll be outside." He asked me if I wanted to make Thanksgiving dinner on Friday instead, and go to their house ON Thanksgiving. Not particularly, I don't really want two Thanksgiving feasts. I told him if we were going to do that, we might as well scrap plans for Thanksgiving here and go to my friend's house as well, since they extended the invite last night also, but I told them thank you, but we were going to do a small one.
Hubby got upset, feeling like he messes things up or says stupid things when people pressure him, which made me sad - hate when he gets all negative toward himself
Part of me just wants to go ahead and postpone our Thanksgiving, even though I was excited about it, and go to the neighbors house (but I really dont want to spend the day with a ton of people I do not know), just so he doesn't feel bad about it. He hates telling people straight out "No", and doesn't want to make them angry by saying no. But he doesn't want me upset either.
Ack, just needed to rant a bit. Again, why can't holidays be easy? At least I got my first Xmas card today in the mail, THAT made the day better
A few weeks ago, hubby, me, and the in-laws decided we'd have Thanksgiving in our house, because I have a bigger kitchen and dining room available for the 5 of us. His mom's counter space equals the size of the island in mine!
The other day, the neighbor invited us over for Thanksgiving. She called and asked who we were having over, and we invited them here since we'd already planned on people coming over. Yesterday, I saw her talking to hubby, FIL and BIL while they cleared logs out front (the rest of the trees from our land clearing back in 07!) I figured hubby was telling her we were having it here, because I have the turkey already, and part of the side items.
Today, I went and got the brown and serve rolls, green beans, and corn to go with the turkey and potatoes I already have. Planned on getting my ingredients tomorrow for my surprise spiced rum cake I'm making. Hubby asked me what we were going to do about going to the neighbor's house. I told him I thought we already went over that Saturday ... apparently he told her what I said, and she put pressure on him Sunday still to come over because they're "having a ton of people and it'll be outside." He asked me if I wanted to make Thanksgiving dinner on Friday instead, and go to their house ON Thanksgiving. Not particularly, I don't really want two Thanksgiving feasts. I told him if we were going to do that, we might as well scrap plans for Thanksgiving here and go to my friend's house as well, since they extended the invite last night also, but I told them thank you, but we were going to do a small one.
Hubby got upset, feeling like he messes things up or says stupid things when people pressure him, which made me sad - hate when he gets all negative toward himself
Ack, just needed to rant a bit. Again, why can't holidays be easy? At least I got my first Xmas card today in the mail, THAT made the day better