Need calming vibes

zohdee

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I am one pissed off puppy and have been the past few days.

First, I get to work Thanksgiving, Black Friday, Christmas Eve, New Years Eve and New Years Day.

Second, my son came home yesterday in the utmost horrid mood. He went with his girlfriend, her mom and her mom's friend to see the new Harry Potter movie...or so I thought. Other teens went along and made my son feel bad. He came home in the worst mood I have seen him in. Her friends don't like him because he takes up to much of her time.

Lastly, my EX. Oh, how I despise him. This will probably be the last Santa year for my daughter. I posted that I got her an American Girl doll and I emailed my ex to tell him to get her a few outfits for the doll instead of the DSi she wanted. She has a DS but it is on its last legs but she hasn't touched it since she got a game for the Wii. He told me he would be picking her up Christmas Eve and giving her the doll clothes, with out the doll. He asked me how I was going to explain clothes with no doll. I was floored. He can't even send a gift here from Santa. It all has to be from him. He spends at most, eight hours a month with her. He doesn't know what her teacher's name is, her doctor's name is, what her grades are...he just cares about spending more money.

I am so stressed, I hate the holidays.

Sorry to be cranky here...I am just in a hugely pissy mood.
 

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Originally Posted by zohdee

He told me he would be picking her up Christmas Eve and giving her the doll clothes, with out the doll. He asked me how I was going to explain clothes with no doll.
Santa is very smart. He knows that her dad gave her doll clothes so he brought her a doll that can wear them.
 

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I am sorry you are having a bad time of it I can't offer much but I can offer some hugs
 

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Originally Posted by CheshireCat

Santa is very smart. He knows that her dad gave her doll clothes so he brought her a doll that can wear them.
Sounds like someone is used to thinking fast on their feet! Lots of calming vibes for you, hon... and for your son too!
 

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Wow, you're really being pushed through the wringer right now. I hope things calm down for you soon.
 
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