This very well may be a sign that your cat doesn't like your husband. Has he ever done anything to your cat, that your cat might not like? Make sure to scold your cat when he does bad things, but don't slap him. He won't get that, and will just think you're trying to be mean.
Hope this helps,
I didnt realize i had so many replies and thank you. Romeo wasnt abused by anyone as my friend gave him to me (i knew his family life) his personality changed within months of being neutered. I have since gave him to another home as he was getting vicious towards me hissing spitting it was as he became someone else. the person who has him now allows him to go outdoors and he seems much happier. i never allowed him outside. thank you