My sister and I have very different tastes but I decorated my living room the way I wanted to with my native American things and she moved my pictures around while I was gone yesterday and she has a habit of doing things like that. She used to rearrange my mother's kitchen and it drove my mother nuts and she would tell her you do your place the way you want but leave mine alone. And she picks the water and feed bowls up for the dog out of the kids reach rather than teaching them to leave it alone and it bugs me. I think you should set things where you want them and then teach children to not touch them. She is really bad about trying to rearrange things here and I have to go back and put things the way I had them. So would you get upset if another woman or anyone for that matter was constinatly trying to decorate your house to suit them when you wasn't looking?