I know better than to think people here are going to scream “Donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t do it!†but I need to run an idea by someone.
Since we lost Cotton, thereâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s been a gap in our family. I know nothing can ever replace my big buddy, and I certainly donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t intend to do that, but the vibe in the house still feels like somethingâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s missing. Sybil and Freya are getting along better than weâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d hoped and Sybil is a sweetie, even if weâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]re pretty sure sheâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s not too bright, but even with her, thereâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s a noticeable lack of what DH and I call “Snuggly Cat.†Freya cuddles on her own terms. Always has, always will. Sybil cuddles a bit but has the attention span of a Tasmanian devil, so rarely stays in one place very long and DH and I both miss having a TV or book or video game (or anything you do while sitting on the couch) companion.
This has led us to talk about getting a third cat. Weâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d accepted the reality of a third cat when we decided to keep Sybil while Cotton was still with us. Weâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]re comfortable with the added cost (heck, weâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d already accepted it) and seeing how quickly Freyaâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s adapted to Sybil, we think sheâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d be okay with a non-dominant, cat–friendly male…a bit older than Sybil so not as crazy.
I guess Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m just wondering what people think. Do I sound crazy? Does this sound selfish? Am I making a problem where there isnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t one?
Since we lost Cotton, thereâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s been a gap in our family. I know nothing can ever replace my big buddy, and I certainly donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t intend to do that, but the vibe in the house still feels like somethingâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s missing. Sybil and Freya are getting along better than weâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d hoped and Sybil is a sweetie, even if weâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]re pretty sure sheâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s not too bright, but even with her, thereâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s a noticeable lack of what DH and I call “Snuggly Cat.†Freya cuddles on her own terms. Always has, always will. Sybil cuddles a bit but has the attention span of a Tasmanian devil, so rarely stays in one place very long and DH and I both miss having a TV or book or video game (or anything you do while sitting on the couch) companion.
This has led us to talk about getting a third cat. Weâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d accepted the reality of a third cat when we decided to keep Sybil while Cotton was still with us. Weâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]re comfortable with the added cost (heck, weâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d already accepted it) and seeing how quickly Freyaâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s adapted to Sybil, we think sheâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d be okay with a non-dominant, cat–friendly male…a bit older than Sybil so not as crazy.
I guess Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m just wondering what people think. Do I sound crazy? Does this sound selfish? Am I making a problem where there isnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t one?