My two love birds are as close as ever they were, and this picture, taken this afternoon, shows how they are most of the time.
BUT I am a bit concerned about Wellington's behaviour towards his companion. This sounds funny but he is constantly trying to have sex with her. I do not think it is a dominance thing - it seems mostly very affectionate and often starts with them licking each other's faces for a few minutes. And it is not always in the accepted 'cat' position - I often see them lying side by side and his body is making thrusting movements towards her. Last night on the sofa she actually slept through the whole thing on her back with her feet in the air, while he went through all the motions. At other times he gets quite rough and grabs her by the neck until she squeals. When he has had enough he sits up and washes himself very thoroughly. All this sounds Ok in a strange way, but what worries me is that he seems very sad and has a real frustrated look in his eyes afterwards as if he knows there should be more.
I spoke to the vet about it, but he said there could be nothing physical wrong as it was impossible to do a male neuter wrongly unless they had left a whole testicle, in which case, the vet would know about it and would have told me, and the cat would still be capable of full sex. He could not offer any proper explanation. So I don't know what to do and I feel silly in a way even writing about it.
Biscotte still adores her Wellington and they spend a lot of time following each other around and curled up together. So am I worrying about nothing?
BUT I am a bit concerned about Wellington's behaviour towards his companion. This sounds funny but he is constantly trying to have sex with her. I do not think it is a dominance thing - it seems mostly very affectionate and often starts with them licking each other's faces for a few minutes. And it is not always in the accepted 'cat' position - I often see them lying side by side and his body is making thrusting movements towards her. Last night on the sofa she actually slept through the whole thing on her back with her feet in the air, while he went through all the motions. At other times he gets quite rough and grabs her by the neck until she squeals. When he has had enough he sits up and washes himself very thoroughly. All this sounds Ok in a strange way, but what worries me is that he seems very sad and has a real frustrated look in his eyes afterwards as if he knows there should be more.
I spoke to the vet about it, but he said there could be nothing physical wrong as it was impossible to do a male neuter wrongly unless they had left a whole testicle, in which case, the vet would know about it and would have told me, and the cat would still be capable of full sex. He could not offer any proper explanation. So I don't know what to do and I feel silly in a way even writing about it.
Biscotte still adores her Wellington and they spend a lot of time following each other around and curled up together. So am I worrying about nothing?
Tomas usually gets annoyed because he doesn't like Sho's feet in his side or belly so when I see it I try to move Sho's feet. But otherwise I ignore it. 
) and Imhotep also does it to Cleo. I've noticed Nova try to do it to Pria as well. Shadey is my gay cat and trys to do it will Elliott! All of my boys were neutered between 4-6 months of age except Imhotep and Nova who were about a year old because that's how old Tep was when he was adopted and Dana hadn't neutered Nova until I came into the picture, educated him and made him have him neutered. 
