Buddy

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My black DSH Buddy passed away peacefully last night. He was only 6, and I only had him for 4 months. Almost 3 weeks ago I discovered a lump on his chest. I took him into the vet who sent a sample off to cytology. It came back for a high chance of fibrosarcoma. He then developed another large mass on his rear leg, and x-rays revealed a possible 3rd mass. I made the decision, based on the locations and number of possible tumors, not to operate. The vet thought we could buy some time, but it wasn't to be. A week after the 2nd mass appeared he was ready to go. He had been sleeping more this past week, but was still eating, grooming, using the litterbox and playing with his brother Smokey. That was his behavior on Thursday night. 4am Friday morning both cats woke me up with their playing. When I went to feed them at 6, Buddy refused to eat. He hid under the bed and had trouble standing. I called the vet once I got into work and he suggested some courses of treatment we could take to make him feel better. But by the time I got home Buddy was laying on the floor moaning in pain. The mass on his leg now engulfed his underbelly and he couldn't walk. Thankfully the vets office was still opened and I didn't have to take him to the emergency hospital, where I wouldn't be allowed to be with him at the end.

Buddy was a gentleman of a cat. He never got snippy or "catty" with me, and rarely meowed. He slept at the foot of my bed. He never reacted badly when my other cats hissed at him when doing introductions - he just let them say what they had to say. He also let my 2-1/2 year old nephew play with him, which is amazing for a cat that wasn't around children all that much until I got him. I'm dealing with the guilt that I didn't catch this problem earlier, but until the lump appeared there was no clue. I hope he's reunited with his 1st Mom (who passed away last spring), and sees my other fur angel Freckles. I know that I will see him and Freckles again some day.
 

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Oh, I'm so sorry!

I'm not a medical person, but most likely even IF you would have been given a clue earlier and made every effort to help him, I suspect this was something that was fast-acting, and nothing could have been done to prolong his time with you.

You did the right thing by not putting him through more stress of having surgery.

Please don't count the regrets - consider the blessings of having him in your life - you'll never forget him. He was loved!
 

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I'm so sorry to hear this news. He sounds like a very special cat. RIP, Buddy.
 

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I'm so sorry for your loss of your beloved Buddy. Because of you he was able to go the the Bridge loved and cared for, rather than in a cage in a shelter. You did well by him.

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Aw, Buddy sounds like a true gentleman. These tumors sound like they would have kept coming. Don't doubt your decision. You gave him the ultimate kindness, even though it broke your heart.

I also have a Buddy who is getting older.

May your Buddy RIP and I am sure him and Freckles are enjoying the sunshine together right now.

God Bless
 

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Oh that's just awful!

I had Sherman for only 9 months when he was lost to cancer. He had been a stray and in my local shelter for over 2 years. He had been very upset and sad at the shelter, and they almost released him to a feral colony at a farm after the first few weeks there. They had ear-tipped him in preparation for that. But somehow, one of the shelter directors thought she could maybe turn him around. He spent about a year in her office and came to love her.

She introduced me to him, and I took him home. My only other cat at the time, another black DSH who had been at the same shelter for 3.5 years, was very cordial to Sherman from the start. Sherman was very loving to me and showed signs that he was more relaxed in our home than anyone had ever seen him.

I'll tell you what everyone (from the shelter) told me when they heard he had passed, "We are so glad that he had a loving home with you the last months of his life."

I'm glad of that, too. Still, I felt I failed him. He haunts me now, and I'm glad he is still "here" in that way.

You were very good to look after Buddy at the end of his life.

I'm so sorry for your loss.


Robin
 
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