Chynna
went to the RB on July 3/10.
Abby is 12 years old and came to live with me when she was 4 months. I brought her home so she could be a companion for Chynna because I had started a new job at work that had me working 12 hour day and night shifts and I thought that was a long time to leave Chynna home alone without any companionship.
Unfortunately, while Abby came from a home that had a couple other cats and she loved to cuddle, as much as she tried to cuddle with Chynna, Chynna would have absolutely no part of it.
Abby tried and tried so hard, but Chynna would chase her away and she even stalked her (not in a playful way either). Abby grew timid and frightened, and I became her bestest friend.
There was always rivalry between Chynna and Abby for my attention, and Chynna was so jealous when she saw me with Abby that she would butt in causing Abby to run off, or Abby would see Chynna eyeing her and then run off with Chynna stalking her.
Abby was truly fearful of Chynna.
Based on how Abby was when she first came to live here, and her huge desire to have another kitty companion, I'm wondering if that desire is still there.
Since Chynna died, Abby is a whole different kitty. She's come out of her shell. She's no longer timid or afraid. She loves to cuddle and will even let me pick her up sometimes. And when I'm sitting on the couch she jumps up to sleep on top of me (every evening), something she never did at all when Chynna was here.
I don't think Abby even misses Chynna even a little bit. She never went around calling out for Chynna when Chynna was no longer here.
I would love to give another kitty a home (a cat about 3 to 5 years old), but I'm afraid of how Abby will react.
She seems to enjoy being my only kitty and having me all to herself. But at the same time I can't help but remember that little kitten who came to live with me and wanted so much to have a kitty cuddle companion.
So I'm really torn about what to do.
Can I get your thoughts?
Abby is 12 years old and came to live with me when she was 4 months. I brought her home so she could be a companion for Chynna because I had started a new job at work that had me working 12 hour day and night shifts and I thought that was a long time to leave Chynna home alone without any companionship.
Unfortunately, while Abby came from a home that had a couple other cats and she loved to cuddle, as much as she tried to cuddle with Chynna, Chynna would have absolutely no part of it.
Abby tried and tried so hard, but Chynna would chase her away and she even stalked her (not in a playful way either). Abby grew timid and frightened, and I became her bestest friend.
There was always rivalry between Chynna and Abby for my attention, and Chynna was so jealous when she saw me with Abby that she would butt in causing Abby to run off, or Abby would see Chynna eyeing her and then run off with Chynna stalking her.
Abby was truly fearful of Chynna.
Based on how Abby was when she first came to live here, and her huge desire to have another kitty companion, I'm wondering if that desire is still there.
Since Chynna died, Abby is a whole different kitty. She's come out of her shell. She's no longer timid or afraid. She loves to cuddle and will even let me pick her up sometimes. And when I'm sitting on the couch she jumps up to sleep on top of me (every evening), something she never did at all when Chynna was here.
I don't think Abby even misses Chynna even a little bit. She never went around calling out for Chynna when Chynna was no longer here.
I would love to give another kitty a home (a cat about 3 to 5 years old), but I'm afraid of how Abby will react.
She seems to enjoy being my only kitty and having me all to herself. But at the same time I can't help but remember that little kitten who came to live with me and wanted so much to have a kitty cuddle companion.
So I'm really torn about what to do.
Can I get your thoughts?