Vibes for husband

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He is stuck in a rut and just not right. Hes being stressed at work, his family ande its all coming out between us. He needs direction and to be able to back up his choices(and i keep telling him you have to decide them at your pace). I try to be patient but can't all the time.
 

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I know how you feel, Blaine has been stuck like that but is now much happier that hes changed jobs sooooo lots of and
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It's so hard to leave your work stress behind when you come home. Sending lots of calming that everything settles down soon.
 

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Stress is a terrible thing, especially when you can't seem to control it, or rather you can't help but let it control you. I'm really sorry that his stress is coming between you 2. I know my BF gets very stressed from work a lot, and a lot of times I feel more like a roomate than a girlfriend, just kind of there, it's aggravating really, and I try to talk to him but he's not good at handling it either I guess. Luckily for him, he just got a promotion, which you might think would add even more stress, but it's actually supposed to officially put a lot of the crap he was dealing with on other people who 'should' have been dealing with it before.

Oops I didn't mean to take over with my stories...


Families are a whole different ballgame than work, which I'm sure you're aware of. I hope he can find the strength to deal with his family, and remember and acknowledge YOUR place in his life. Here's some calming vibes for your husband and you.
 
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