The time has come where I need to buy a crate, I dont particularly care for crates or crate training but all other options have been exhausted and my couch cant take it anymore, honestly neither can I.
Back in May I adopted my moms Golden Retriever, and having grown up with that breed I thought I knew what to expect, well Max just takes the cake. Part of it is my fault, part my moms and part is just the breed and Franklin instigating. Well Max has officially destroyed our expensive, insured sectional couch. We ran to the grocery store last night not even gone an hour and we came back to this....
(This is the cleaned up version, not the horrific mess we actually came home to, I had a big whopping panic attack so didnt think to take pictures till I had cleaned all the stuffing up and starting fixing the black fabric. Basically my living room was covered in stuffing the black fabric ripped off and the cushion cover ripped off)
(That whole side was ripped off)
(That corner was ripped off)
(And there is my poor cushion)
Needless to say things were quite tense in the house last night, Max and Franklin both were sentenced to the front porch while we cleaned all the stuffing up and I bawled my eyes out because I feel responsible for what happened, Im the one who wanted the dogs. While we are home Max is GREAT, I mean the perfect big lap dog who wants love and attention, he is a great brother to Franklin but when we are gone, all heck breaks loose. We dont know if its boredome, seperation anxiety (I think that plays into it), if him and Franklin get roughousing and the couch got in the way because we know Franklin will go onto the top of the couch to play, we are just mystified this is the first time Max (and Franklin he isnt getting off scot-free) has actually destroyed something other than the occasional paper plate or paper towel.
My knowledge of crate training is minimal, basically I know that the crate needs to be seen as a den and not punishment. Im a little unclear on the size I need though sitting down from floor to shoulder Max is 28 inches tall. So I am not completely sure if I need a 36 inch crate or a 42. A lot of other golden owners have said 42. Im thinking Ill go bigger just to be safe because Id rather him have more room than not enough. The crate will only be for times when we leave the house, not over night. Max sleeps on the floor on my side of the bed, I really really really would prefer to not crate him at night. But I need to know how to go about starting crate training. Just toss some treats in and leave the door open all the time to get him to see it as a nice place? Do I feed him in there? Also another question, I have a soft sided crate that was given to me for Franklin, should I start crating him too and crate them in seperate rooms. Franklin is a chewer so I really worry that he will eat thru the soft crate even if its supposed to be 'indestrucable'....So far EVERYTHING we have bought that is supposed to be 'indestrucable' is NOT Franklin proof. That dog can kill a stuffed toy in 5 minutes or less. Also I give them marrow bones or compressed rawhide because they are both chewers. Im not thinking the rawhide would be good for in the crate but a stuffed marrow bone would be ok??? I normally stuffed them with peanut butter and yogurt mixture with a little kibble stuffed in there frozen and they get them as a treat, so if they are crated and we know we are going to be gone for an extended period of time, basically anything longer than what it takes for me to go to and from BFs work they would get their bones. What about toys, can they have their toys and ropes in there to play with and keep them company? Bedding? Yes no maybe???? The both have woobie blankets they sleep with at night so would those be ok in their crates? Also I was thinking since Max is kinda obsessed with my laundry maybe putting in a ratty t shirt Ive worn in there with him to make him feel a little more comfy?!?!
Ugh Im just racking my brain over what to do and to make sure Im doing whats best for them. I just know that my mental state cant take another possibility of walking into the house and seeing what I saw last night. Not to mention how hazardous it is for them (Im on major poop patrol also, checking for any stuffing although with the 2 garbage bags full I doubt they ate any, especially judging by the 5 am poops I checked already) Ugh the stress of being a pet parent.
Back in May I adopted my moms Golden Retriever, and having grown up with that breed I thought I knew what to expect, well Max just takes the cake. Part of it is my fault, part my moms and part is just the breed and Franklin instigating. Well Max has officially destroyed our expensive, insured sectional couch. We ran to the grocery store last night not even gone an hour and we came back to this....
(This is the cleaned up version, not the horrific mess we actually came home to, I had a big whopping panic attack so didnt think to take pictures till I had cleaned all the stuffing up and starting fixing the black fabric. Basically my living room was covered in stuffing the black fabric ripped off and the cushion cover ripped off)
(That whole side was ripped off)
(That corner was ripped off)
(And there is my poor cushion)
Needless to say things were quite tense in the house last night, Max and Franklin both were sentenced to the front porch while we cleaned all the stuffing up and I bawled my eyes out because I feel responsible for what happened, Im the one who wanted the dogs. While we are home Max is GREAT, I mean the perfect big lap dog who wants love and attention, he is a great brother to Franklin but when we are gone, all heck breaks loose. We dont know if its boredome, seperation anxiety (I think that plays into it), if him and Franklin get roughousing and the couch got in the way because we know Franklin will go onto the top of the couch to play, we are just mystified this is the first time Max (and Franklin he isnt getting off scot-free) has actually destroyed something other than the occasional paper plate or paper towel.
My knowledge of crate training is minimal, basically I know that the crate needs to be seen as a den and not punishment. Im a little unclear on the size I need though sitting down from floor to shoulder Max is 28 inches tall. So I am not completely sure if I need a 36 inch crate or a 42. A lot of other golden owners have said 42. Im thinking Ill go bigger just to be safe because Id rather him have more room than not enough. The crate will only be for times when we leave the house, not over night. Max sleeps on the floor on my side of the bed, I really really really would prefer to not crate him at night. But I need to know how to go about starting crate training. Just toss some treats in and leave the door open all the time to get him to see it as a nice place? Do I feed him in there? Also another question, I have a soft sided crate that was given to me for Franklin, should I start crating him too and crate them in seperate rooms. Franklin is a chewer so I really worry that he will eat thru the soft crate even if its supposed to be 'indestrucable'....So far EVERYTHING we have bought that is supposed to be 'indestrucable' is NOT Franklin proof. That dog can kill a stuffed toy in 5 minutes or less. Also I give them marrow bones or compressed rawhide because they are both chewers. Im not thinking the rawhide would be good for in the crate but a stuffed marrow bone would be ok??? I normally stuffed them with peanut butter and yogurt mixture with a little kibble stuffed in there frozen and they get them as a treat, so if they are crated and we know we are going to be gone for an extended period of time, basically anything longer than what it takes for me to go to and from BFs work they would get their bones. What about toys, can they have their toys and ropes in there to play with and keep them company? Bedding? Yes no maybe???? The both have woobie blankets they sleep with at night so would those be ok in their crates? Also I was thinking since Max is kinda obsessed with my laundry maybe putting in a ratty t shirt Ive worn in there with him to make him feel a little more comfy?!?!
Ugh Im just racking my brain over what to do and to make sure Im doing whats best for them. I just know that my mental state cant take another possibility of walking into the house and seeing what I saw last night. Not to mention how hazardous it is for them (Im on major poop patrol also, checking for any stuffing although with the 2 garbage bags full I doubt they ate any, especially judging by the 5 am poops I checked already) Ugh the stress of being a pet parent.