|Originally posted by Phoebes mom
OMG I thought Baby was just losing her hair from scratching around her neck!!!! THANK YOU THE COLLARS ARE OFF! I am a horriable mother OMG! I can't afford a vet or anything like that! I need to surender them I can't afford it
No, don't say you are a horrible mother!!!! I'm sure you give your kitties loads of love and you seem to care about them deeply.
I'm very thankful that you took them off.
I've found that owning cats is a learning experience. Socks is my first, and I have made lots of mistakes (declawing, Hartz products, disciplinary problems...)
But the people here at The Cat Site have never judged me harshly and have explained to me what I was doing wrong and why. That's why I love this place, and I think it was very responsible of you as a pet owner to come post a question about your pets.
I've done so many things wrong, and at points I feel like a horrible mommy to Socks, but I've learned so much from her and from people, that I know next time.
If you talk to Hissy, I think she said that she's worked out various payments with vets before. Ask the vet if they need the office cleaned, the grass cut, anything you can do in return for him/her to treat your pets.
Best of luck!