First I want to say thank you to everyone on here that has offered advice to us with this. I would like to say that money isn't a problem, but in reality for us right now it is. We are doing everything that we are able to with Stan to ensure his quality of life, however, we also need to keep a roof over our heads and make sure our other pets can receive care as well. So I feel that ultimately, it will become a deciding factor in what we end up doing.
Things are not looking good for Stan. She checked his mouth and he has a couple of really bad teeth, back left hand side, one on top, one on bottom. Eventually, they will need to be extracted. So that explains why he wasn't eating, and in turn why he wasn't pooping. Like I said before - nothing going in, nothing coming out. She didn't feel that he was constipated, just that he wasn't eating enough to produce waste. She suggested for now that we water down his wet food so that he can basically drink his food. She also gave me liquid clavamox to help with the teeth for now, this way I won't have to pill him and she said that the injectable one isn't very effective for teeth. I don't think it will be a problem.
If only his teeth were the problem, but they aren't. When she palpitated his abdomen she felt fluid. This was the same problem that we had been told by another vet was worms (pot belly appearance). She said that we could do an xray or she could try to get a sample directly. I allowed her to get the sample, she said he was wonderful for it. She got two little viles of fluid, one they were going to test to make sure it wasn't urine, the other they are going to send out to confirm what she suspects. She thinks that he has feline infectious peritonitis, it has already progressed into the wet form which also progresses more quickly than the dry form. She also thinks that the stress from moving here with the dogs made it progress more quickly, although with his interaction with the dogs today while we were at the vet she thinks that he is fine with them now, and since they leave him alone at home that we don't need to separate them. In all likelihood he will not live long enough to get the infection in his mouth under control enough to have the dental done, and even if he did, the stress of the dental would probably kill him. When my boyfriend was out having a smoke with the dogs, she said that if it is this, as she suspects is it, that he will have anywhere from a few months to a year to live but also suspects is will be closer to the few months. I did ask her to be brutally honest with me with all possibilities, so she wasn't just jumping to conclusions.
I have called the store where the adoption center is to let them know that he may have this, unfortunately the actual agency is closed now for the evening and we won't be able to get in touch with them until Monday. I also have to call the vet again on Monday to see what the results are of the additional testing we did are.
The vet was absolutely wonderful and I believe that we will be taking all of our pets there from now on - very nice staff and great prices as well. Today's visit was $155, he received a thorough exam, had some fluid removed from his abdomen and his medication for his nasty teeth. At the vet that we had been using, this would have cost us at least $400 and most likely more than that.