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Anyone have experience with meds for litter box issues?

post #1 of 11
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I posted a while ago about this, and I'm seriously beginning to lose my mind! I have a cat who sometimes uses the litter box, sometimes doesn't. We have been to the vet numerous times and had numerous tests run (blood panels, urinalysis with a draw directly from the bladder) only to find nothing wrong. The same tests have been run several times, all to find nothing wrong. I've tried new litter including cat attract. I've tried new litter boxes. I've tried moving litter boxes. I've tried adding litter boxes. I have 4 Feliway diffusers plugged in to cover basically my entire house. I've tried giving him treats every time he comes out of the litter box. Several months ago he start using my shower as a litter box. He literally plops his butt directly on the drain and pees (its a flat drain). I tried creating a litter box with a raised surface to act like the shower drain if it was the feel of the litter that bothered him. That didn't work.

He does use the litter box sometimes, but he seems to just find a place to go wherever he is when he needs to go. I've been following him around watching him and if he happens to be near a litter box when he has to pee he'll go right in and use it. If he's not in it, he'll find something nearby to pee on.

Since there seems to be nothing medically wrong I suspect its a stress issue. I have 11 cats and this particular cat is bullied by the others. He doesn't stand up for himself. He just cowers when another cat starts growling at him. He'll sometimes fight back if a cat attacks him, but usually he runs away. So after following him around and observing him for a while, I've watched the other cats attack him while he's in a litter box. I have a litter box in an area that he can easily escape from - I thought that might help - but a few minutes ago I watched him get ambushed while he was in that litter box. The other cats don't hurt him minus a scratch here and there, but they definitely intimidate him. Last night my worst bully cat was sitting in the doorway to the guest bathroom where most of the litter boxes are and when Oreo (the one I'm having problems with) tried to walk in, the other cat just sat there growling at him. I don't really blame Oreo for not wanting to walk past him. So instead he walked into my other bathroom and used the shower drain instead.

I've tried everything I can think of to make the other cats stop bullying him, so I guess I have 2 problems and if I can solve one, maybe the other will go away. So first, if anyone has ideas on how to make them stop being bullies that would be very helpful. But if that won't work, I was thinking of talking to the vet about putting Oreo on some kind of medicine (i'm thinking prozac or something like that) to calm him down and not make him be so terrified of the other cats. I'm just at a loss right now. I feel like I've tried everything. I've spent hours at the vet and hours researching ways to make this stop and nothing has worked. I consider myself a very patient person. I take in unwanted cats and have no problems dealing with cat related problems, but this urinating outside of the litter box is really starting to take its toll on me. I feel like all I do is clean up cat pee.

So does anyone have any suggestions? I've never really liked the idea of putting a cat on medicine, but I'm wondering if this is my only option at this point. I don't want Oreo to be miserable and I'd like to stop being miserable too!
post #2 of 11
In a home with 11 cats, I'm not sure you can do much about the bullying. Hopefully others will have ideas there. We live in a really small space with 8 cats. In fact, when we first started rescuing, we lived in the RV. Our family grew to five, and one of our more aggressive kitties decided to frequently pick on and chase one of our girls. We thought more space might solve the problem.

Wrong.

The move stressed her out, and she started stress peeing. We could have had 100 litter boxes and it wouldn't have made a difference.

You don't mention using an enzyme cleaner to clean up... you're already familiar with this?

Anyway, here's what we finally did.

ALL of us needed a break. We talked to our vet, and he recommended elavil (amytriptaline). 10mg a day. (10 pound cat). It takes about two weeks to build to the level in the kitty, but for her, it worked within two days.

Now, elavil is NOT really an effective anti-depressant. But it's used on children who have problems with bed-wetting, because one of its side effects is to cause urine retention. For WHATEVER reason, that apparently helps. Spooky started peeing once a day - one huge pee. Always in the box.

We then went through the house with a blacklight, made sure we'd gotten EVERY spot she'd ever peed. We used Nok Out (http://www.nokout.com) as the enzyme cleaner (really, we tried SO many, and they are NOT created equal!).

We then also used methods of "non access" to spots she'd previously gone while the Nok Out dried. Spots on the floor we covered with aluminum foil until it air dried. We completely SOAKED the couch cushions and just let them dry outside.

Because she loved to pee on the bed, we'd already made sure to get the mattress spots REALLY well. We'd just layer towels over the wet spot and make the bed over those, and swap the towels out daily. We also got a LARGE cardboard box, cut down one side so it could lay flat, and laid it over the bed during the day, and just folded it up and put it up against the wall at night. We did this for a month, and she never went on the bed again.

We used Nok Out with the wash. We'd already stopped leaving ANY laundry of any kind out anywhere.

All of that said... for us - for her - the elavil worked, and fast. And it gave us time to clean up the house so there was no more cat pee smell encouraging her to go outside of the box. It DID make her dopey and sleepy for the first three weeks. She definitely gained some weight. But after that first three weeks/a month, she pretty much went back to being her normal, playful (and needy LOL) self. We kept her on the elavil for three months, then weaned her off of it, by moving to every other day for two weeks, every third day for the next week, &etc.

She did pee outside the box again. It was because her teeth hurt (she has terrible teeth and by like 4 years old had already had 4 of them pulled).

Some have tried elavil and it has not worked. Because these meds are generally frowned upon, I tend to talk about it via private message, but I know for sure there are a number of people for whom the short term use broke the cycle, and that was enough. There are several others that are on long term maintenance - but it's working.

I also know people have had mixed results with prozac as well - and many people have had very bad experiences with it. At least with elavil, the worst people have seen (that I'm aware of) is that their cats seemed very "dopey." But we found that if you see it through, that only lasts for a few weeks.

I'd discuss it with the vet, but it seems to me it's worth a try. It gave all of us the break we needed, and it broke the cycle for Spooky.

...and Shelly and Tuxedo continue to stalk and chase her on a fairly frequent basis (although she doesn't get chased out of the litter box)... and we moved back into the RV two years ago after having lived in a house for four years. We now have 8 in here, and she's still not having problems.

We do give her extra attention and play time. We also discourage the others from chasing her down by making how we feel about it really clear: "Shelly, NO!" and giving him (or whoever) a time out in the bathroom for five minutes. We explain why on the way there, shut the door, and open it without saying anything and walking away. We also praise the heck out of them for being near her and ignoring her (or being nice to her).

With 11, I don't know if that's practical or effective. Basically your stress-peer is your "pariah" kitty.

Do you have a lot of vertical space for them? Do you have any litter boxes that are... "up?" This has worked for some people.

Others have simply separated their pariah kitties.

One person found a large area of vertical space (the top of the bed), and the pariah kitty - when food, water, and litter was provided - basically chooses to live up there, and come down just for cuddles.

Hope some of this helps.

Vibes for you and your boy!
post #3 of 11
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Yeah I was thinking that the bullying probably isn't preventable because there are so many of them. We do have a lot of vertical space for them in the form of cat trees, a bed on top of the refrigerator, hammocks in the windows, and a scratching post on top of a shelf. Unfortunately, though, my bullied cat tends to stay on the ground. Its rare to ever see him up high somewhere so while I think its a great idea to possibly put something up high for him to use, I doubt he'd use it anyway. Though I wonder if I'd be able to train him to claim his own spot up and away from the other cats.

I'll definitely talk to my vet about elavil. Ideally I can do something like you did - possibly put him on medicine and then wean him off of it at some point.

We do clean the spots he pees in with an enzyme cleaner. We use Urine Off which so far is the best enzyme cleaner I've come across. It specifically says it removes tomcat urine odor, so its pretty strong. Part of my frustration though is the amount of money I keep spending on it. It works, but I just always have a pee spot to clean up, which is just so frustrating. He's peed on the couch several times, and while you can't still smell it, the cleaner has left some stains on the couch (and the couch is really old) so I've been in the process of trying to convince my husband to get a new couch. I'm hoping that a new couch will stay pee free, because I'm wondering if he can still smell anything on the couch, even though we can't.

We also try to give him extra love and attention because he definietly craves it. In fact, he's actually VERY annoying in his demands for attention, so DH and I have a mixture of "aw look how cute and lovable he is" and "Oh my God please go away!" Even though, he gets annoying though, we do our best to give him the attention he's demanding in an attempt to possibly build up his self esteem, but so far that hasn't worked. It always seems like he is looking for reassurance that he's loved, so we try to give him that reassurance.

We also try to discourage the bullies but thats tough too. If I hear one growling I'll just say his/her name really loudly and he will automatically stop. I think they know what they are doing is wrong, but as soon as I walk away, it just starts right up again.

Thank you for sharing your experience. I am definitely going to bring up elavil to my vet in the hopes that something will be able to fix this!
post #4 of 11
I know you love all your cats, but when it comes to obvious stress and uncontrollable bullying in a multi kitty home, you need to think about what is best for the kitties. Do you really think that it would be fare to dose the kitty who is already being attacked and bullied?
The best thing would be for you to find a loving home for him, he will never be happy in his current living situation. He is a constant target by your other cats, and medicating him, the one who is being bullied and terrified to use the litter box at times because as you even stated, he has been attacked doing so. How is this OK?
This kitty is pleading with you for help. Don't drug him to conform to your living situation.
post #5 of 11
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Originally Posted by Brooklet425 View Post
We do clean the spots he pees in with an enzyme cleaner. We use Urine Off which so far is the best enzyme cleaner I've come across. It specifically says it removes tomcat urine odor, so its pretty strong. Part of my frustration though is the amount of money I keep spending on it. It works, but I just always have a pee spot to clean up, which is just so frustrating. He's peed on the couch several times, and while you can't still smell it, the cleaner has left some stains on the couch (and the couch is really old) so I've been in the process of trying to convince my husband to get a new couch. I'm hoping that a new couch will stay pee free, because I'm wondering if he can still smell anything on the couch, even though we can't.
Spooky loved using the bed, which got really frustrating. We hit on the box idea before the elavil, actually, and that worked. What we did for the couch was buy the big heavy duty aluminum foil and put several strips down to cover where you sit on the couch. Then we kept a throw blanket around to put down over that when we wanted to sit on it, but we'd put the throw blanket away when we weren't using the couch. This stopped her peeing on the couch.

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Originally Posted by Brooklet425
We also try to give him extra love and attention because he definietly craves it. In fact, he's actually VERY annoying in his demands for attention, so DH and I have a mixture of "aw look how cute and lovable he is" and "Oh my God please go away!" Even though, he gets annoying though, we do our best to give him the attention he's demanding in an attempt to possibly build up his self esteem, but so far that hasn't worked. It always seems like he is looking for reassurance that he's loved, so we try to give him that reassurance.
You just described Spooky. She's incredibly needy. And I don't know what it is about her, but just her presence often annoys the other cats. I can't see or sense anything that she's doing - but every day or two, one of the boys will just go after her.

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Originally Posted by Brooklet425
We also try to discourage the bullies but thats tough too. If I hear one growling I'll just say his/her name really loudly and he will automatically stop. I think they know what they are doing is wrong, but as soon as I walk away, it just starts right up again.
Yup, know this one too.

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Originally Posted by Brooklet425
Thank you for sharing your experience. I am definitely going to bring up elavil to my vet in the hopes that something will be able to fix this!
It's definitely worth talking about, and probably worth trying. If it works, he may need to stay on it. But in our experience, Spooky went back to being her normal - playful and needy - self after those first few weeks. She also took off the little bit of extra weight she'd gained once she went back to being more active. ...and though she was definitely stress peeing, she never seemed depressed. She's needy... but she was that way from the beginning.

post #6 of 11
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I know you love all your cats, but when it comes to obvious stress and uncontrollable bullying in a multi kitty home, you need to think about what is best for the kitties. Do you really think that it would be fare to dose the kitty who is already being attacked and bullied?
The best thing would be for you to find a loving home for him, he will never be happy in his current living situation. He is a constant target by your other cats, and medicating him, the one who is being bullied and terrified to use the litter box at times because as you even stated, he has been attacked doing so. How is this OK?
This kitty is pleading with you for help. Don't drug him to conform to your living situation.
While I appreciate your concern, I never said I was definitely going to drug him. Only that I was going to talk to the vet about it and see where to go from there. I'm also not finding him a new home. He had a rough life before he came into our home (based on his personality and the scars all over him - he was looking pretty sad, was sick and had wounds and scars all over him. He was just overall looking miserable when we he started hanging around our apartment) and while yes he's bullied, he's also very attached to my husband and me and I'm pretty sure that just giving him to someone else would hurt him more than staying in our home will. If anything, he's perked up a LOT since we took him in. He's healthy now (not including the stress peeing), and even though he's bullied, if you could see him when he first came into our lives, he is 500 times happier and more comfortable now than he was then. The bullying is frequent but he doesn't spend 24/7 being harassed by the other cats. Its just when he happens to get in their personal space. And yes I have a lot of cats, but my house is large enough for them all to have plenty of room for their own personal space (whether or not they choose to stay in their own personal space is something I can't help). If he was noticeably unhappy and miserable I might consider looking at other options, but to be honest, he doesn't seem depressed at all. Just stressed.

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You just described Spooky. She's incredibly needy. And I don't know what it is about her, but just her presence often annoys the other cats. I can't see or sense anything that she's doing - but every day or two, one of the boys will just go after her.

It's definitely worth talking about, and probably worth trying. If it works, he may need to stay on it. But in our experience, Spooky went back to being her normal - playful and needy - self after those first few weeks. She also took off the little bit of extra weight she'd gained once she went back to being more active. ...and though she was definitely stress peeing, she never seemed depressed. She's needy... but she was that way from the beginning.

Thanks for saying this. Oreo's presence annoys the other cats too, and I can't for the life of me figure out what it is about him that bothers them. It reminds me of high school where the "cool" kids just randomly picked a person to harass and pick on when they felt the need to. There's no logical explanation for it as far as I can tell. He doesn't do anything to them that I can see.

And as I just told the poster who commented before you, Oreo definitely doesn't seem depressed at all like your Spooky. He's been needy since the day we took him into our home. I've definitely concluded that this is stress peeing, but aside from that, he doesn't seem unhappy at all. I'm judging that based on the fact that he WAS noticably unhappy when we first found him and he is the complete opposite now. I guess you're right though that this is a hot issue for people. I'm not even 100% comfortable with the idea of medicating him, but I do need to figure something out to make every living creature in this house a little happier!

ETA: We also, like you, praise the bullies like crazy when they are around him and leaving him alone! In fact, today is the first day I've turned the heat on in the house and Oreo loves laying on the bathmat in our bathroom because its right next to a heating vent. I found him AND Marmalade (my biggest bully) laying on the mat together today. To be honest, I'm not entirely sure that Marmalade knew Oreo was there at first because it looked like Oreo showed up after Marmalade went to sleep. But he woke up when I walked in, growled a very low growl and stopped almost instantly without me doing anything to make him stop. So he definitely got a lot of praise for that! It was such an odd thing to see that I had to take a picture to send my husband while he was at work because I knew he'd never believe that the 2 of them were that close together without a fight breaking out! Granted, the peace lasted just while they were sleeping and they haven't been near each other for the rest of the day, but it was still quite a breakthrough that I'm not really convinced I'll ever see again!
post #7 of 11
Hi, have you tried putting a litterbox on your shower? It seems he doesn't get bullied there... I know it would be a pain to move it every time you shower, but at least he would use the box instead of the shower... After a while, if that works, you can try to move it to right outside the shower, behind the door or something, in a more private area for him. Also try to add one extra box inside of a closet or somewhere more private - I know this is the reverse of what usually works, but it might give him the feeling of safety/protection...
Also, you can try the vanilla trick and see if it works. Get a bottle of vanilla extract and put a dab on each cat's chin and neck every day. They will all smell the same, helping to reduce aggression against one another.

Good luck!
post #8 of 11
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Originally Posted by cheylink View Post
I know you love all your cats, but when it comes to obvious stress and uncontrollable bullying in a multi kitty home, you need to think about what is best for the kitties. Do you really think that it would be fare to dose the kitty who is already being attacked and bullied?
The best thing would be for you to find a loving home for him, he will never be happy in his current living situation. He is a constant target by your other cats, and medicating him, the one who is being bullied and terrified to use the litter box at times because as you even stated, he has been attacked doing so. How is this OK?
This kitty is pleading with you for help. Don't drug him to conform to your living situation.
Brooklet already answered you, but I wanted to address this post too. Stress does not mean unhappy or depressed. Lazlo stalked and chased Billy for months when we first adopted Billy. But he is the happiest cat - he's totally happy-go-lucky, and continued to head bump Lazlo - knowing what was coming! But he never reacted to Lazlo's aggression with stress. He was overly submissive like Oreo, and would run or ball up - but the minute Lazlo walked away, Bill immediately "bounced back," smiling, tail up, looking like he was whistling or something.

Like Brooklet's Oreo, our Spook was rescued out of a tough situation (actually she was being abused). She's a happy girl who loves to play - there's just something about her that makes her like the outcast of the group. That's what a "pariah" kitty is. If the kitty(ies) were unhappy, obviously rehoming would be something to be considered. But one thing most of us encourage is trying to find solutions rather than rehoming. Personally, I think rehoming a cat is a far more drastic measure than temporarily medicating them.

When a cat starts stress peeing, if you don't get to all the spots they pee with the enzyme cleaner while the root of the stress is still happening, it just becomes a vicious cycle. Enzyme cleaners don't always dry overnight, and the smell of urine isn't gone until they've done their job. And sometimes they require a second application... and the scent of the pee around the house just encourages the kitty with the problem to continue not using the box.

Obviously everything else should be tried first. But sometimes "the last resort" is necessary - and what IS best for everyone, including the cat. With pill pockets, medicating a cat with a pill is not a traumatic experience. In fact, some of us are quite good at pilling, and pilling itself is not a traumatic experience.

Besides - the cats react to OUR stress - and ongoing problems with peeing outside the box clearly become frustrating and stressful, just adding to everything contributing to the problem.

We had excellent results and broke the cycle, and I never recommend using elavil as a first, second, or third resort. I do suggest people consider it as a last resort.

Spooky continues to be needy, and she continues to be the pariah kitty. But as she was never depressed, my guess is that that few month break helped reduce our stress levels while she wasn't peeing outside of the box. It gave us the time we needed to clean up the scent of pee in our home - and so when she came off, she was "used" to using the boxes again, and there was no pee smell anywhere that encouraged her to pee outside the box.

Medications for behavioral problems, IMO, are a tool and have their place and time. If they can prevent an otherwise happy cat from being rehomed, I believe there is a point at which they should be considered.
post #9 of 11
Just wanted to add.... I think Carolina's idea of trying a litter box in the shower is a great idea. Yes, a PIA - but given part of Oreo's problem is that he's being stalked and ambushed when using a box, part of the long term solution is going to be finding a place he can use a litter box without fear of being ambushed.

I also remember reading here about ... herbal collars (I think they're relatively new?) that help reduce stress. I think they need to be changed monthly. I don't know what they're called, but that's something else to look into. I'm not familiar with them, but I know they've been discussed here, particularly for use during cat introductions or use in multicat homes.

Also, have you tried Bach's Rescue Remedy? We add a few drops to their water, and we started putting out small water dishes EVERYWHERE. We also dab it under Spooky's chin, behind her ears, and at the base of her tail. If you haven't already tried this, you might want to give it a go. They now have a formula specifically for pets that has no alcohol. (The alcohol as re: drinking was no issue as far as we were concerned because it would evaporate out of the water, but I didn't like dabbing it under her chin. Nice they have a non-alcohol based option now ).
post #10 of 11
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We tried the litter box in the shower a while back and all that happened was that the other cats found it and then he stayed away from the bathroom. Plus, even though he uses the shower, he still pees elsewhere in the house too, so even if he used the litter box there, I don't think it would have stopped him from peeing in the rest of the house. It does seem like he feels safe in the bathroom, but if he's not in the bathroom when he has to go then he just uses the couch, or the floor, or a pile of clothes (which we have now learned to not leave laundry anywhere).

The closet idea sounds great, but we don't have the ability to do it (unless I just can't think of a way to at the moment). We have very small closets, and no way to leave them open. They are the folding door type closets (I have no idea what they are called, accordion doors maybe?) If we left the one in the hallway open, the open door would block the hallway. If we used the one in the bedroom, it would block the entrance to our bedroom if we left it open. When I say the house is large enough for 11 cats - it is. But its set up really weird and doesn't allow for stuff like this. Even in the bathroom, if I left a litter box in the bathroom it wouldn't work because the bathroom is the size of the shower, the toilet and the bathmat in front of the toilet and next to the shower. Our sink area is in the bedroom, not the actual bathroom. So a litter box can fit in the shower, but once it came out of the shower, there's just no where to put it in the rest of the bathroom unless I want to step in it every time I shower or use the toilet! I guess that doesn't matter though because it didn't work when we put it in the shower anyway.

I'm wondering if I might be able to put a litter box or 2 in our garage now though. Up until about a week ago our garage was used primarily for storage so I wouldn't have even thought to try it because there would have been too much stuff to pee on and the huge possibility that I wouldn't be able to find the source of the smell, but we spent last week organizing it, and moving stuff into the attic, so if I can convince my husband to install a cat door in the door leading to the garage, maybe he'd go out there. I suspect the other cats will find the door and use it too, but its the only thing I can think of that we haven't tried yet.

I tried the vanilla trick when we brought the 2nd to last cat into our house. He was a dominant male and that wasn't going over well with any of the cats, so I put the vanilla on all of them and it seemed to work. I didn't try it specifically for Oreo, but he was included with the others and that didn't seem to change anything, but now that Moe has been accepted, maybe I should try again for Oreo.

Thanks for the ideas though, and believe me if I could fit a litter box into a closet or if it worked in the bathroom I'd do it, I just don't see how its even possible the way this house is set up though .
post #11 of 11
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I also remember reading here about ... herbal collars (I think they're relatively new?) that help reduce stress. I think they need to be changed monthly. I don't know what they're called, but that's something else to look into. I'm not familiar with them, but I know they've been discussed here, particularly for use during cat introductions or use in multicat homes.

Also, have you tried Bach's Rescue Remedy? We add a few drops to their water, and we started putting out small water dishes EVERYWHERE. We also dab it under Spooky's chin, behind her ears, and at the base of her tail. If you haven't already tried this, you might want to give it a go. They now have a formula specifically for pets that has no alcohol. (The alcohol as re: drinking was no issue as far as we were concerned because it would evaporate out of the water, but I didn't like dabbing it under her chin. Nice they have a non-alcohol based option now ).
I've never heard of the herbal collars but I'll definitely look into that and see if its something that might work. And I've never tried rescue remedy with him, but we did try an herbal calming thing a LONG time ago that didn't seem to work. I can't remember what its called offhand, but the vet had said it would be ok to try. We saw no noticeable results from it though. I've never used Rescue Remedy for anything, but I've always heard good things about it so I'm not sure why it didn't even cross my mind to try it. Maybe I'll try that out first, and if its still not working then consider the meds. Or maybe both at the same time. Ugh I don't know...its just so frustrating. I'm going to call the vet on Monday to see about getting him an appointment this week and maybe we can figure out a solution then. In the meantime, I'm off to google the herbal collars and find some Rescue Remedy to buy!

ETA: Thank you for all of your suggestions! It actually reduces my own stress a little bit to know that I'm not the only one who has dealt with this!
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