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my cat doesn't love me anymore

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I went out of the country for 15 days and I left my 1 year 6 months old cat at the vets daycare, i just got her back today and she's walking around the house meowing and won't let me hold her or pet her, I wonder if she forgot about me while I was away or she's just angry i left her, what do you think?
post #2 of 7
Normal - it is going to take a few days for her to adjust back to the house and to you. Give her her space and let her come to you on her own time... It will happen.
post #3 of 7
Just add food. Most cats are easy to win over if you feed them. Go about your usual routine and a few meals from now she should be ok.
post #4 of 7
This is normal cat behavior. My cats did this to me when I got home after being away for less than 48 hours over labor day weekend. Just let her work things out in her own time frame. I swear this is a cat's way of complaining about being left home alone. She will come around once she realizes you are not going out of town again. Have you unpacked yet? My cats sometimes seem to calm down when I start unpacking.
post #5 of 7
My husband has doing a lot of traveling. The cats adjusted eventually. But they would ignore him for awhile when he came home at the beginning and become all lovey-dovey with me. Now they've gone back to wanting him and ignoring me.
post #6 of 7
I have a friend come and stay when I have to go out of town. Still he ignores me for about a week and then is back to normal.Its hard as I miss him
when I am away

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post #7 of 7
Oh sweetie, your baby still loves you!!
When my mom was so sick I had to be out of town A LOT to care for her--weeks at a time!! I had a friend come twice a day to feed and play with them BUT when I would get home they would give me the cold shoulder for days!! They got over it. Just act like everything is normal and get them back to their routine.
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