My dad sold our farm a few years back and he paid my sisters down payment on her house and thousands of dollars on credit cards debit and then he built a house that he was supposed to leave to me. My sister has him convinced that I am of a fraile mind I guess he has decided to put the house and land that we still have in my sisters kids name, and to give me a life time diary here and he says its the same as me owning it. Which it isn't I will always have them hanging the property over my head and always have to ask them before I do anything and if I have kids they will get nothing so basically all of the farm has gone to my sister and the sad thing is I have been the one to set my life on hold and stay here and help him and its like I don't even matter to him. He has always treated her better than me but I felt like since he knew she never wanted this house he would be fair with me he knew that if I didn't have kids I would leave the place to his kids anyway. And he says him putting it in their name, and they are 4 and 2 years old so my sister will have control, and giving me a lifetime diary is the same as leaving the house to me but it isn't and when I tried to discuss it he yelled and called me stupid and it really hurt me. The whole thing hurts. I have never wanted to live anywhere but here and she has only wanted the money the place would bring and always talks about how she hates to see the day I have to move because all of my stuff. And she does it infront of him and he knows she is like that but still he would rather it not go in my name they say that I would just marry some crook and loose it anyway so they don't think I should have it in my name. What kind of father does this to their kids and makes such differences with their kids. He raised me when my mom left but he has always treated me like I had a wooden brain. And I know part of it is because I look like my mom but I can't help that. He shouldn't have married her anyway she was 14 and he was 38 and he treated her poorly and that's why she left.
The only thing I know to do is once I get my taxes and I can buy a new car, as mine broke down and I am using his, is to get my own place and start saving and just do what is best for me and let them all have the place. But it hurts so much he knows how much I love this place and then he leaves it to her kids.
The only thing I know to do is once I get my taxes and I can buy a new car, as mine broke down and I am using his, is to get my own place and start saving and just do what is best for me and let them all have the place. But it hurts so much he knows how much I love this place and then he leaves it to her kids.