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Help with cats please??

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Hey everyone, My name is Tyler and i'm new to these forums.

I just finally give up and need to ask for help in a matter with my two cats. Ive had my first cat, Angel (Female) for about 2 years now. I got her from one of my friends who had babies. Since day one she had always been very touchy and some-what aggressive, Just hissing ang swiping randomly.
For the past two years, she has on occasion hissed and scratched me, but not too much. Other than those rare times, she was one of the most loving cat ever, would sleep w/ me, etc.
A couple months ago, my girlfriend, whom I also live with, decided since I had a cat, she wanted one of her own. I thought it would be a great idea because when my girlfriend and I go to work, Angel will have a friend. She went out and got a 6 month old cat who she named Oliver(Male) from one of her friends whos cat had had babies. Both cats are yet to be fixed and have shots.
My issue here is with Angel(female), my 2 year old cat, MY cat. Like i said before, she use to be rarely upset and easily. I first started to notice her change when I was sitting with her on my bed petting her, and she was puring. She looking very relaxed and calm. In the blink of an eye she snapped and hissed and tried to like scratch me. She than ran away and when i tried to go toward her she started hissing like crazy. She started doing this more and more frequently as this new cat was here. we've now had both cats for 4 months and My cat Angel, will barely ever let me touch her. 4 out of 5 times she will hiss and try to bite and scratch me. She is like this with everyone, except the new cat Oliver (Male) with who she loves. Lately I've started to spray Angel with water when she snapps like that, but now its becoming unbearable. Everyone i know and that knows her calls her a Bitch, and i know its actually true.

Can anyone give me some information as to why this is happening and what can i do? Any help would be great =)
Thank you for reading this whole story

P.S.
My girlfriend went out and got another cat because her kids couldnt even pet my cat because she would snap and scratch and hiss at them at times.
post #2 of 5
Until someone else comes along and gives you a detailed answer...

1) feliway spray/diffusers, rescue remedy, catnip, and valerian root powder all work wonders to help calm a cat down. Sounds like she needs it.

2)GET HER SPAYED! This is almost guaranteed to calm her down, and will also help with the aggression.

3) SEPARATE those cats. a) you really don't need more kittens, and b) she may "love" him but his presence is apparently what has started this so you need to get them apart and do a slow reintroduction.

4) You're going to get mixed reviews on the spray bottle routine. Some will swear by it, some will hate it. It's going to be left up to you to take the information you're given and make a decision.
post #3 of 5
Thread Starter 
Also, Ive read the sticky on stopping aggressive cats, and it tells me to time the amount of time i can sit there and pet her. I cant even do that beause as soon as i go to pet her, she hisses, like shes mad at me. The only time she lets me pet her now is when im feeding her, when shes in heat, and when im laying down to go to sleep.
post #4 of 5
also, check out this info: i'd like you to meet - introducing cats
very helpful!
post #5 of 5
The first step is to get them both fixed. An unspayed female, IMO, will just be aggressive. Once she's spayed & he is neutered, then you can try steps to re-introduce them.
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