I would just love to smack him in the head. We bought a car a while ago, and found out it needed a lot of fairly simple, but time consuming repairs to bring it up to inspection standard. He had been working on it, but then it got so hot so I did not complain about him not finishing it. He promised me that he would finish it the first cool day we have. It is a beautiful 67 degrees. In the meantime, I sold my truck and bought an suv at a steal. A coworker wants the car, but wants it on the 15th. DH has seen a Goldwing that they want just a little more for than I will be getting for the car, so I told him he could have the proceeds from the car to get it if he wants it. I have that much in my emergency fund, but do not want to borrow from it. Now he is mad because I said something about him finishing the car before he gets the bike. I did this because I know that he will never finish it, it will get sold for junk, he will still get what he wants, and I will be out my emergency fund. He always gets what he wants, and I seldom do.
Don't get me wrong, he is mostly a great guy, very sweet, loves the kitties, he just never does what I ask him to do until I just blow up and have a screaming fit, then I am a *itch. He does not call me that, but I always feel like one when I ask him to anything. He is a complete pig when it comes to the house, after he promised when we moved in this house that it would not happen again. Then I got sick and can't do as much as I used to, plus I work 12-14 hours a day. He works 8-10. I am still expected to everything around the house.He stays at the computer constantly when he is home, sometimes sitting up all night and not sleeping.
In a way, some of this is my fault, I spoiled him rotten when we first got together, but after 25 years, he should realize that it can't go on forever!
Don't get me wrong, he is mostly a great guy, very sweet, loves the kitties, he just never does what I ask him to do until I just blow up and have a screaming fit, then I am a *itch. He does not call me that, but I always feel like one when I ask him to anything. He is a complete pig when it comes to the house, after he promised when we moved in this house that it would not happen again. Then I got sick and can't do as much as I used to, plus I work 12-14 hours a day. He works 8-10. I am still expected to everything around the house.He stays at the computer constantly when he is home, sometimes sitting up all night and not sleeping.
In a way, some of this is my fault, I spoiled him rotten when we first got together, but after 25 years, he should realize that it can't go on forever!