With the claws just do it gradually. If you can get on paw done one day, count yourself lucky. Work when the cat is relaxed, after she has had a big meal and is stretched out. Start slowly and just gather her paw up in your hand and lay it there, if she jerks away, simply gently gather it up again until she doesn't fight you anymore. This can take awhile, but just go slow.
Once she has accepted you holding her paw, start spreading her paw like you are going to cut her nails, but don't cut them. Keep this up until she is accepting of this action.
Lay the clippers next to her feet, let her get used to them first. Then take them, cut off just the bare tip of the claw and feed her a treat. Do one paw and walk away.
Keep this up and eventually she will not even give you a second glance when it comes to her claw trims.
